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Elizabeth Taylor’s Personal Jewelry Collection

In honor of Elizabeth Taylor’ birthday (born: February 27, 1932 died: March 23, 2011), in this post I will feature ten pieces from her personal jewelry collection which were sold after her death at an auction that raised approximately $115 million to benefit her AIDS foundation, ETAF.  Some of the pieces sold at the Christie’s auction in 2011 have some interesting stories, such as the Cartier Ruby and Diamond Necklace that was presented to Elizabeth by her third husband Mike Todd while she was swimming in the pool on vacation in the French Rivera.  Other pieces have historical significance, such as the La Peregrina Pearl which was once owned by Queen Mary I of England or the “Prince of Wales” brooch which was originally owned by Wallis Simpson the wife of the Duke of Windsor.  Perhaps one of the most stunning pieces was the Krupp Diamond Ring which sold at the auction for over $8 million and subsequently renamed the “Elizabeth Taylor Diamond”.  Special Note: The diamond necklace with the “Taylor/Burton” diamond mentioned in the list had previously sold in 1978 after she divorced Richard Burton)

Ten pieces of jewelry from the personal collection of Elizabeth Taylor:

1.  Cartier Ruby and Diamond Necklace

The Cartier Ruby and Diamond Necklace was a gift from Mike Todd, Elizabeth’s third husband.  The necklace featured seven oval rubies with round and baguette diamonds forming a lattice framework and finished with a ruby and diamond clasp.  In August 1957, while Mike Todd and Elizabeth were on vacation near Monte Carlo, they were swimming in the pool and relaxing and he suddenly surprised her with the stunning necklace.  Being Elizabeth, she quickly put on the necklace, along with the matching bracelet and earrings, and then returned to swimming wearing all the jewels!

Cartier Ruby necklace  Cartier ruby necklace 2

2.  Bulgari Emerald and Diamond Pendant Brooch and Necklace

On the occasion of their engagement, Richard Burton gifted Elizabeth with the Bulgari Brooch.  The brooch features an 18 carat rectangular-cut emerald surrounded by pear-shaped diamonds set in platinum.  Elizabeth wore the emerald brooch on March 15, 1964 when she and Burton were married the first time.  

The emerald and diamond necklace features sixteen graduated rectangular-cut emeralds surrounded by round diamond clusters and in between are pear-shaped and round diamonds forming a quatrefoil shape and the entire necklace is set in platinum.  Later, Elizabeth would frequently attach the brooch to the necklace as a pendant.

Bulgari Emerald Necklace
Bulgari Emerald brooch worn at wedding to RIchard Burton  Bulgari Emerald Necklace 1

3.  “Night of the Iguana” Brooch

The “Night of the Iguana” Brooch by Jean Schulumberger of Tiffany & Co. was purchased in 1964 by Richard Burton.  The reason for the name is that Elizabeth accompanied Burton to Puerto Vallarta, Mexico while he was filming the John Huston movie, “Night of the Iguana”.  The couple had such a fabulous time that to commemorate the film’s premiere Burton gave her the brooch as a special gift (hence the name!)  The design of the brooch is actually a dolphin with diamond and gold scales, the head features cabochon sapphire eye and an emerald mouth all set in platinum and gold.      

Night of the Iguana brooch  Night of the Iguana brooch 1

4.  Krupp Diamond

The large 33.19 carat diamond was previously owned by Vera Krupp, her family were German industrialists.  The type IIa-rated diamond (the most pure and flawless grade of diamonds) is cut in a deep emerald-style, sometimes referred to as an Asscher-cut indicating a style frequently cut prior to the 1920s.  When the diamond came up for auction by the Krupp estate in 1968 Burton paid a reported $305,000.  Elizabeth wore the Krupp Diamond ring frequently referring to it as her favorite piece of jewelry.  After Elizabeth’s death, the Krupp diamond was sold at auction for over $8 million and it has since been renamed the “Elizabeth Taylor Diamond”.

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5.  “Taylor / Burton” Diamond Necklace

The original rough 241 carat diamond was found in a South African mine in 1966.  Harry Winston bought the rough diamond and had it cut into a 69.42 carat pear shape and set into a platinum ring with two smaller diamonds on either side for Mrs. Harriet Ames, the sister of Walter Annenberg.  She sold the diamond ring in 1969 to Cartier Jewelers and the diamond was remained the “Cartier Diamond”.  Subsequently Cartier put it up for auction and it was bought for over $1 million by Richard Burton in 1969.  Elizabeth felt the ring was too heavy and had it redesigned into a necklace, she commissioned Cartier to create an $80,000 diamond necklace made of several graduated pear-shaped diamonds as a setting for the larger diamond now hung as a pendant.  Elizabeth wore the newly designed necklace for the first time at Princess Grace of Monaco’s fortieth birthday party held in Monte Carlo and then later to the Academy Awards in 1970.

After her second divorce from Burton in 1978 (yes, Elizabeth married him twice!) she sold the diamond to Henry Lambert, a New York jewelry and it was subsequently sold in December 1979 to Robert Mouawad of Mouawad jewelers and it is now known as the “Taylor-Burton” necklace.

Taylor Burton Diamond necklace  Taylor Burton diamond necklace 1

6.  La Peregrina Pearl / Cartier Diamond, Pearl and Ruby Necklace

The La Peregrina Pearl has a long history.  It was first discovered in the Gulf of Mexico and presented to the King Phillip II of Spain who in turn offered it as a wedding present when Mary Queen of Scots married.  After her death, the pearl was returned to Spain, many of the Queens of Spain can be seen wearing the La Peregrina Pearl in their official portraits.  Later, the pearl became the procession of the Bonaparte family of France but by the end of the 19th century there is no documentation to show what happened to the La Peregrina Pearl.

A century later, the La Peregrina Pearl was purchased from the Parke-Bernet Gallery in New York City by Richard Burton in 1969 for $37,000.  The pearl was on a gold chain but this was too simple for the taste of Elizabeth.  She commissioned Cartier to create a more elaborate necklace inspired by a portrait she had seen of Mary Queen of Scots wearing the La Peregrina Pearl.  Elizabeth collaborated with Al Durante of Cartier and they designed a necklace featuring two rows of pearls, twenty-three larger pearls and thirty-four larger pearls, intersected with eight separate clusters of diamonds centered by a cushion-cut ruby style to resemble flames all set in platinum and gold.  In the center of the necklace is the La Peregrina Pearl hangs from a diamond and silver bail which is attached to a large cluster of diamonds centered by a pear-shaped ruby which is attached to a large pearl and then another pear-shaped ruby and then finally attached to the necklace.  The La Pergrina Pearl Pendant can also be detached and worn as a brooch. 

After Elizabeth’s death, the La Peregrina Pearl Necklace sold for over $11 million at the Christie’s auction.            

La Peregina pearl necklace 2  La Peregina pearl necklace 1

7.  Bulgari Sapphire and Diamond Sautoir

Throughout their marriage Burton bought several Bulgari pieces of jewelry and in 1969 he gave Elizabeth a diamond and sapphire sautoir.  (a sautoir is a long necklace set with precious stones usually with a hanging pendant that can be worn either shortened or full length)  The necklace is a chain of pave-set diamonds and calibre-cut sapphire geometric-shaped links all set in platinum with a large pave-set diamond octagonal-shaped pendant with more caliber-cut sapphires and pave-set diamonds with a 50 carat cabochon sapphire in the center also set in platinum.  The pendant with the large sapphire can be detached from the necklace and worn separately as a brooch.     

Bulgari Sapphire Sautoir 2  Bulgari Sapphire Sautoir 1

8.   Taj Mahal Diamond Pendant and Cartier Gold and Ruby Chain

Richard gave her the Taj Mahal Diamond with a Cartier Gold and Ruby Chain to Elizabeth in 1972 on the occasion of her 40th birthday.  The large engraved heart shaped diamond is surrounded by a red stone and jade mount which is hung from a woven gold chain embellished with cabochon rubies. 

This unique piece of jewelry has a very interesting past and dates back to the 1600s.  The engraving on the diamond reads: Nur Jahan Baygume Padshah, 23 and 1037.  It means that Nur Jahan was the favored wife of Padshah and 23 refers to the year of the Shah Jahangir reign and 1037 which translates to the date 1627 A.D.  Later the pendant was given to the Shah’s son, Prince Khurram, who later became Mughal Emperor Shah Jahan after the death of his father.  He in turn presented the pendant as a gift to his most beloved wife, Mumtaz-I-Mahal but she unfortunately died in 1631.  The Shah was so overcome with grief that he commissioned a large ornate mausoleum in her honor and it became known as the famous Taj Mahal located in India.

In 2011, at the auction of Elizabeth Taylor’s jewelry collection, the Taj Mahal Diamond Pendant and Cartier Gold and Ruby Chain sold for $8,818,500.    

  Taj Mahal necklace  Taj Mahal necklace 1

9.  “Prince of Wales” Brooch

Elizabeth and Richard Burton were friends of the Duke and Duchess of Windsor and often visited them when they were in France.  The Duke had formerly been the Prince of Wales before he briefly became King Edward VIII but then abdicated the throne in 1936 for the “women that he loved, Wallis Simpson.  The “Prince of Wales” Brooch was commissioned by Edward especially for Wallis.  The brooch design depicts the symbol of the Prince of Wales with three pave-set diamond feathers accented with baguette-cut diamonds which are gathered together by a crown, the piece is set in platinum and 18k gold.

Although Elizabeth was born in a suburb of London, England, Richard Burton was born in Wales.  Maybe given this fact or perhaps because she felt that their love story was so  similar to that of the Duke and Duchess of Windsor, every time she would visit them she would always tell the Duchess how much she like her Prince of Wales Brooch.  Then, in 1987 after the death of the Duchess her jewelry collection was auctioned by Sotheby with the proceeds going to the Pasteur Institute which was a leader in AIDS research.  Elizabeth knew she had to bid on the brooch and money was no object.  Ultimately, Elizabeth’s final bid was the highest (over $623,000) and she got the brooch, the first piece of jewelry she had ever bought for herself!

After Elizabeth’s death, the Prince of Wales Brooch sold for $1,314,500 at the Christie’s auction.        

Prince of Wales feather broochPrince of Wales feather brooch - Wallis  Prince of Wales feather brooch - Elizabeth

10.  Van Cleef & Arpels Daisy Necklace and Earrings set

In preparation for receiving the Jean Hersholt Humanitarian at the Academy Awards in 1993, Elizabeth borrowed a stunning Van Cleef & Arpels daisy necklace and earrings to wear with her beautiful yellow Valentino dress.  She loved the necklace and earring set so much that she later purchased it as her good luck charm.

The necklace was a series of graduated pave-set diamond daises each accented with a round yellow in the center, the daises were joined together by caliber-cut chrysoprase leaves accented with more diamonds which were all set in 18k gold.  The daisy earrings complimented the necklace perfectly and Elizabeth also purchased the matching brooch.      

Daisy necklace 2 Daisy necklace 1

Craft – Penny Crafts

A few years ago my mother gave me a bag of old pennies that my father had saved.  Now that both my parents have passed away I wanted to do something special with them.  So, I searched the internet and came up with a few ideas and in this post I will show the four different craft projects that I made using the pennies.

Serving tray embellished with pennies 

The first project uses a tray that I had previously made which was detailed in another post on this blog a few years ago.  Making the tray was a very simple craft project using a picture frame, decorative drawer pulls and knobs.  Now, I decided to embellish the tray with the pennies from my dad.  

Penny Tray - original version

Serving tray embellished with pennies supply list –

  • Picture frame tray (Please click on the link for a supply list and directions on how to make the picture frame tray)
  • Pennies, the amount will be determined by the size of the tray used
  • Hot glue gun and glue sticks

Serving tray embellished with pennies instructions –

  1. Remove the cardboard backing and material from the picture frame tray, leave the glass in place.
  2. Glue the material to another piece of cardboard, this will provide additional support to carry the weight of the pennies.
  3. Glue the pennies directly on to the material.  Line the pennies with all of them facing the same direction for a more uniformed look.
  4. After the pennies are arranged, carefully flip the material/cardboard piece with the attached pennies and place into the picture frame tray.
  5. Replace the cardboard backing and secure.

Penny tray - final 1

The next three craft projects involve items that, when they are completed, can be used as decorations for a home.

Framed Penny heart with special poem

For this next craft project I found a special poem on the internet.  I printed it out using my home computer, notice the poem is positioned in the upper portion of the paper to allow space.  In the lower portion the paper I arranged the pennies into a heart shape.  This piece would look wonderful hung on the wall of a home or set in a bookcase or on a table.

Framed penny heart/special poem instructions –

  1. Print a special poem on the computer (I suggest a short poem printed in the upper portion of the paper)  For additional support to hold the weight of the pennies glue the paper with the poem onto a piece of heavy cardboard.
  2. In the lower portion of the paper glue the pennies to form the outline of a heart shape.  Then, continue to fill the space within the heart outline and overlay several layers of pennies. I placed the pennies with all of them facing the same direction for a more uniformed look.
  3. Remove the cardboard backing from the frame; insert the special poem/penny heart and center within the photo mat.  Craft Tip: In order to avoid flipping over the paper weighed down with the heavy pennies instead lay the paper flat on a hard surface and then place the frame over it.  Then flip the entire frame over, by doing this it will allow the heavy paper some much needed support.
  4. Replace the cardboard backing to complete the craft project.

Penny heart and poem

Framed penny initial

This craft project was created with the remaining pennies that my dad had saved.  In my local craft I found a fabric covered board which I used for this project, this board would prove to be an excellent item to support the heavy pennies.

Framed penny initial supply list –

  • Frame
  • Photo mat
  • Fabric covered board (this ready-made board was purchased at a local craft store but if unavailable one can easily be made)
  • Pennies, the amount will be determined by the size of the frame used
  • Hot glue gun, glue sticks

Framed penny initial instructions –

  1. On the fabric covered board glue the pennies to form an initial.  Then, continue to overlay several layers of pennies. I placed the pennies with all of them facing the same direction for a more uniformed look.
  2. Remove the cardboard backing from the frame; insert the fabric board/penny initial and center within the photo mat.
  3. Replace the cardboard backing to complete the craft project.

Penny initial

Picture frame embellished with pennies

For the final craft project I wanted to incorporate a photo into the design to create a unique decorative item to remember my dad.  I decided to use a simple picture frame which I embellished with the pennies that my dad had saved.   

Picture frame embellished with pennies supply list –

  • A simple picture frame (I used one with a frame that was an inch wide which gave adequate space to arrange the pennies)
  • Photo mat
  • Special photo
  • Pennies, the amount will be determined by the size of the frame used
  • Hot glue gun, glue sticks

Picture frame embellished with pennies instructions –

  1. Remove the cardboard backing, insert the selected photo and position into the photo mat, then reassemble the frame.
  2. Start by gluing the pennies around the edge of the frame (I placed two layers on the frame overlapping the layers)  I placed the pennies with all of them facing the same direction for a more uniformed look.
  3. Next, glue the pennies directly to the glass starting at the edge of the frame and working toward the edge of the photo mat covering the entire area while overlapping the different layers.

Penny Frame

Craft – Mushrooms Under Glass

Mushrooms under glass - finished

In previous crafts posts I have used domes or cloches to create decorative displays under glass. These craft projects make wonderful displays for any home and can be used on tables or bookshelves as decorative Spring or Summer seasonal items.  In this post I will create another simple display using mushrooms, floral stems and moss.  Additional items, such as an artificial snail or a couple of ladybugs or a butterfly perched on one of the mushrooms or maybe a tiny sign that says “snail crossing” or “welcome to the garden” and decorative rocks can also be added to create interest.

Mushrooms under glass - supplies

Mushrooms Under Glass supply list

  • Glass dome or cloche with base – size is determined by the height and the width of the items used (the glass dome I used had a wooden base)
  • Mushrooms – 2 or 3 (I used a set that features two mushrooms)
  • Floral stems
  • Moss
  • Hot glue gun and glue sticks
  • Optional items – an artificial snail, ladybug, butterfly, small signs or decorative rocks

Mushrooms Under Glass instructions

  1. Center the mushrooms and hot glue them to the base (before gluing, be sure that there is a least a few inches of space between the mushrooms and the glass dome)
  2. Arrange the floral stems around the mushrooms and hot glue them to the base
  3. Arrange the moss around the mushrooms and floral stems
  4. Optional items can be added to the display to create more interest, such as an artificial insect or a small sign.

Mushrooms under glass - finished 1

For more information about the previous crafts posts, Butterflies in a Jar and Fairy Under Glass, also using domes or cloches to create decorative displays under glass, please click on the links for supply lists and full instructions.

Decor – Funeral decorations and memorbilia

This month in honor of Presidents Day I wrote a post on Presidential Funerals in which I discussed the traditions and customs involved in the planning of these events. Personally, in recent years I have helped to plan several funerals for family members and in the process I have searched the internet for ideas.  In general, craft information to create decorations or displays for a funeral are difficult to find and most websites that I found on the internet were for ready-made items to purchase.  In this post I discuss the numerous funeral or memorial items that I have made and I will also offer suggestions for additional items.  When planning the elements for a funeral or memorial service the focus should be on the deceased person and all the items used should in some way reflect their personality, interests or have special meaning that tells the story of their life.

Funeral or memorial service decorations

To start the decorations for a funeral or memorial service it is a good idea to have a welcome table for the invited guests which will usually be set up in the vestibule of a church or in the hallway or just inside the door of a mortuary lobby.   Place a large photo of the deceased person on the table along with some smaller photos, some type of book for guests to sign or write their memories of the deceased person.  A welcome table it is also a great place to set the funeral or memorial programs and holy cards for guests to pick up.  For my mom’s rosary service the night before her funeral we placed several photos on the tables around the room which we mixed in with the many floral arrangements. (Decor Tip:  For smaller photos use frames that have an easel backing or for larger photos in bigger frames use metal or wooden stands)        

Funeral display 1

For the service of my husband’s grandmother we set out the scrapbook which I had for the 60th anniversary of his grandparents on the welcome table, the book highlighted the couple’s life together throughout the years and it was wonderful for the guests to be able to glance through before the service.  (Craft Tip: This type of retrospective scrapbook is a relatively easy craft project to create in a few hours.  All that is needed are a photo album, several photos depicting the deceased throughout their life, a supply of scrapbook paper and some stickers or other embellishments)

Funeral display 3 Funeral display 5

Another type of display arrangement to create for a funeral or memorial service is by incorporating memorabilia of the deceased person.  For my husband’s grandfather’s service his special Pearl Harbor Survivor hats were set out on the table.  For my husband’s grandmother’s service several of her paintings were set out on the mantel of a fireplace with a specially made shadowbox displaying her many art show ribbons collected throughout the years. 

Funeral display 2Funeral display 4

For the memorial service for my husband’s nephew, I made a wreath decorated with artificial flowers and butterflies for the welcome table, butterflies were the general theme of the service (look for a photo of this wreath later in this post).  Since the deceased was a young boy, his mother wanted to display his many sports awards and also his school projects made throughout the years.  On the fireplace mantel in the room we set out more framed photos, sports awards and a stack of his favorite books.  Before the service started the guests moved about the room looking at all the displays.

Memorial displays 2 Memorial displays 1

Memorial displays 3

The elements or parts of a funeral or memorial service

When planning a funeral or memorial service there are usually numerous decisions to make in regards to selecting songs, prayers or poems.  Much like the choices made for the decorations, when planning the elements for a funeral or memorial service the focus should be on the deceased person and the selections made should reflect their personality, interests or have special meaning. 

A wonderful element for a funeral or a memorial service is a personalized video presentation which includes a selection of photos showing the life of the deceased person set to specially selected music.  Together my husband and I have done this for the funeral and memorial services of several relatives (and also for various milestone birthdays or anniversaries).  There are many different applications and programs that can be used to create a video and the one that you choose comes down to personal preference.

There are several things to keep in mind when making a personalized video for a funeral or memorial service.  The first thing to consider are that the photos chosen should span the years of the deceased person.  We usually select photos from childhood through to the end of their life including memorable events, special occasions or other milestones. Shown below is an unusual photo of the hands of three generations of women in my family which was taken just a few years before my mother passed away, the hands are of my mother, myself and my daughter.  We used this as the “title photo” for the video which listed her full name, date of birth and date of death.  (Special Tip: One thing to keep in mind when selecting photos is to try to include the family and friends that will be attending the service.  The second thing to consider is the music selection and it should be a song that holds special meaning.  Maybe the song could be the deceased person’s favorite song by their favorite musical artist or maybe one that you personally selected because of the meaning of the lyrics or a classical song or a church hymn.  Another Special Tip: In the past when we have created a video for a funeral we have used only one song and selected the number of photos to fill the time from the beginning to end of the song.  We found the length of one song, usually 2 to 4 minutes, works best because it holds the attention of the guests)

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Another element that we used for my husband’s nephew’s memorial service was a special butterfly release.  The mother wanted the service to be a celebration of her son’s life, so at the end of the service the guests were invited outside to witness the release of the butterflies.  The immediate family members including grandparents, aunts and uncles said a few words before releasing individual butterflies and to conclude this portion of the service the parents and siblings of the boy released a large basket of several butterflies which fluttered into the afternoon sky providing a wonderful symbolic gesture and proved to be a very emotional end to the service. (Source Tip:  When planning the event we searched the internet for a local source for the butterfly release.  There is a little preparation involved with a butterfly release but it is worth the effort)

Another element to a funeral or memorial service are the items worn by the people taking part in the service.  For my mother’s funeral I made the boutonnieres for the pallbearers to wear, my mother had requested that all of her grandchildren carry her coffin into the chapel.  Her grandsons and grand-daughters wore white roses, my mother’s favorite flower, on their left side pined over their hearts.  I used artificial roses, a few leaves, green floral tape to create the boutonnieres and provided long pearl topped pins to fasten them to the shirts or dresses of the grandchildren.  (Craft Tip: Flowers chosen for a boutonniere can be traditional lilies, roses or perhaps the favorite flower of the deceased person)

Funeral boutonniere

Another item that I made for my sisters and myself to wear at my mother’s funeral service were special medallion brooches.  I found the metal and glass medallions at my local craft store, selected a photo of my mother and father which I copied and then minimized the size to fit the medallion.  Then I tied a black ribbon bow with a safety pin attached to use to pin it to our clothes.  Since both my mother and father had now passed away I wanted to honor their memory and also designate at the funeral that we were their daughters.  Something this simple to create was noticed by the guests at the funeral and I received many compliments about the medallions.  (Special Note: As a very meaningful gesture, I made two special medallions which I placed in my mother’s coffin.  One had a photo of her with her parents and siblings and the other was a photo of her with my dad and her four daughters)

Memorial brooch 3

For the memorial service of my husband’s nephew we used a theme of butterflies and I purchased inexpensive artificial butterflies from my local craft store which we pinned to the clothing of the immediate family, grandparents, aunts, uncles and great-grandparents.  This was a wonderful way to incorporate the theme of the service and also to identify the relatives of the deceased boy.

Preserving the memorabilia of a funeral or memorial service

After a funeral or memorial service there is sometimes memorabilia to preserve or to honor the deceased person.  The first item shown below was actually used at my wedding and was something I created to honor my father who had passed away several years earlier.  I used a photo of my father and found a special poem on the internet that I printed on my home computer and it perfectly reflected my feelings about him.  Shown below is the special memorial piece that I placed on a table with a floral arrangement and some candles.  I used a simple wooden frame, selected a double photo mat and then inserted both my father’s photo and the special poem.  Even though this item was used for a wedding the idea could also be a special piece to display on the welcome table at the funeral or memorial service or could be used afterwards to display in a home to remember and honor a deceased person.  Another idea instead of a traditional frame is to use a shadowbox frame that could include a boutonniere or flower from the funeral or memorial service.  

Framed memorial 1 Memorial poem 1

The next two items were created to preserve the memory of my husband’s nephew.  The first was the special wreath I created to displayed on the “welcome table” at the memorial service and it was saved to be used afterwards for a front door decoration.  I used a simple grapevine wreath, flowers and 12 blue butterflies were also attached to the wreath to reference the age of the boy at the time of his death.  The second item I created was a special piece which I presented to the mother after the service.  I used the program from the memorial service, some of the flowers and stems from the wreath and two of the butterflies which were originally used as boutonnieres.

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For my mother’s funeral service I wanted to create a very special and sentimental wreath. The floral wreath that I made features white roses which were my Mother’s favorite flower. I used six white full roses to represent my parents and their four daughters, nine white rose buds to represent their nine grandchildren.  I finished the wreath with green hydrangeas and berries in a lovely pastel shade of rose pink.  By creating this special wreath instead of purchasing one from the local floral shop turned out to be a blessing.  Let me explain why it was a cathartic experience, first by taking the time to make the wreath I was able to honor my mother’s creative talent which was something she passed on to me.  Second, as I made the wreath I was able take the time to reflect on my memories of her and start to process my grief from her passing.  I still use the wreath as a floral decoration for my front door and instead of making me sad it brings me serenity and peace in remembering and honoring my mother.

Funeral wreath 1

Presidential Funerals

During the month of February we celebrate President’s Day and I thought I would take the opportunity to talk about Presidential Funerals.  In recent years, a sitting president (meaning a current president still in office) will start to plan his funeral.  I know it sounds a little morbid for a person to plan their funeral when they are still living, but in the case of a State funeral held in the nation’s capital advance planning is needed to coordinate the many details involved such as the lying in state, the funeral procession and service, followed by the interment or burial. 

So, let’s start by discussing the funeral of the first President of the United States, George Washington, and then move forward to more recent time.

When George Washington died in 1799 at his home at Mount Vernon, Virginia and it had only been two years since he had voluntarily left the office of President of the United States.  Four days after his death his immediate family held a funeral at a church near Mount Vernon with traditional Masonic funeral rites and he was interred in a vault located a short distance away closer to the Potomac River.  Since news traveled very slowly, by the time the people in Philadelphia (the U.S. Capital at that time) heard that Washington had died Congress immediately called for December 26 to be a day of official mourning.  That day started with a sixteen cannon salute, followed by a procession of the members of Congress, military units and others to the Zion Lutheran Church for a memorial service.  Initially Congress had requested that Washington remains be moved to the new national capital being built, which was renamed Washington, D.C. in his honor, and although the family this request Washington remains stayed at Mt. Vernon.  (Shown below in the first photo is the Washington procession in Philadelphia, the next photo shows the Washington grave site at Mt. Vernon. For more visitor information about planning a trip to Mount Vernon or information on the history of the Washington Monument and how it came to be built in Washington D.C. please click on the links)

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As the 50th anniversary of the Declaration of Independence was being planned two of the original founding fathers were on their deathbeds; John Adams in Quincy, Massachusetts and Thomas Jefferson at Monticello in Virginia.  After a falling out in their relationship over opposing political views, the two former Presidents of the United States had near the end of their lives renewed their friendship and correspondence.  On July 4, 1826, each knew the other was seriously ill and Jefferson died earlier in the day and then Adams just five hours later.  Per Jefferson’s request a small service was held the day after his death in Charlottesville, Virginia with a private burial at Monticello attended by only his immediate family and close friends; a granite obelisk marks the gravesite with a simple inscription according to Jefferson wishes.  (The two photos below show the Jefferson gravesite at Monticello.  For more information about Jefferson’s Monticello estate, please click on the link) 

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The funeral of Adams started with the firing of ceremonial cannons, a procession including the Governor of Massachusetts and other prominent political men, followed by a funeral service held at a church attended by over 4,000 people before Adams was interred in Hancock Cemetery.  Years later, a basement crypt was built in the basement of the United First Parish Church across from the cemetery and is the final resting place of John and Abigail Adams.  (Shown below are two photos of the grave site of Adams)  

John Adams gravesite at United First Parish Church in Quincy Massachusetts  John Adams gravesite at United First Parish Church in Quincy Massachusetts 1a

The first president to die while still in office was William Harrison on April 4, 1841.  President Harrison is known to have given the longest inaugural speech and to have served the shortest term as president, it was only 30 days.  It has been said that his two hour speech in the cold and wet weather led to his illness and subsequent death from pneumonia.  At the time of Harrison’s death there was still not a regulated procedure for dealing with the funerals of the presidents so the White House was draped in black and a religious service by invitation only that was held in the East Room, it was the first State funeral.  Later there was another service held back in Cincinnati, Ohio and Harrison was interred at the Congressional Cemetery in Washington, D.C. but then he was re-interred in North Bend, Ohio.

When Abraham Lincoln was assassinated on April 14, 1865, the news spread quickly throughout the country due to the telegraph system of communication and it was the first time there was an official national mourning period.  Lincoln’s body lay in state for several days with an honor guard keeping watch day and night while the general public was allowed to pay their respects.  In the East Room a special catafalque was built for the casket which was set on a raised platform with a canopy overhead supported by four pillars and covered with black cloth lined with white silk.  (Shown below is Lincoln’s catafalque in the East Room of the White House)

Lincoln funeral - East Room 2

A brief service was held in the Green Room on April 19 and then a funeral procession made its way from the White House slowly down Pennsylvania Ave. to the U.S. Capitol in a specially built hearse carriage drawn by a team of six gray horses.  Lincoln lay in state in the Capitol Rotunda until April 20 and on the morning of April 21 a final prayer service was held with Lincoln’s cabinet in attendance and afterwards the hearse carriage made its way to the train station, it moved slowly through the streets of Washington, D.C.  Once at the railway station Lincoln’s casket was loaded onto a special funeral train for a long journey to Springfield, Illinois.  The train would make the 1,700 mile journey through 7 states stopping in several major cities along the route, including New York, Indianapolis and Chicago.  This was the first time that a train was used to transfer a president’s casket for burial in another state.  With every stop there would be a funeral service before finally reaching Springfield 19 days later where he was finally interred at Oak Ridge Cemetery.  The Lincoln tomb features a 117 foot tall obelisk, a terrace and elaborate bronze statues at the base; Lincoln is actually buried in a cement vault 10 feet below the floor.  Special Note:  Mary Todd Lincoln, the president’s wife, remained in Washington D.C. at the White House because she was too distraught to make the trip for the burial and she returned to their Springfield home about a month later.  (Shown below in the first photo is the carriage which carried the body of Lincoln from the White House to the U.S. Capitol, the second photo shows the funeral train which carried Lincoln’s body back to Springfield and the final photo shows the train’s route across the country from Washington, D.C. to Springfield, Illinois)

Lincoln funeral - carriage White House to Capital
Lincoln funeral - train 1 crop  Lincoln funeral route

The photos below show the exterior and interior of the Lincoln Tomb in Springfield, IL. For more information on Lincoln’s Springfield home and the Lincoln Tomb, please click on the link.

Licoln's Tomb exterior  

Special Historical Fact:  Several years after the death of President Lincoln a historian was looking through photos of the funeral procession when it had passed through New York City on April 25, 1865.  In a strange coincidence, shown in the photo are a very young Teddy Roosevelt, the future President of the United States, and his brother Elliot in the window of the home of their grandfather, Cornelius Roosevelt, which was located on Broadway.  (Shown below in the upper left portion of the photo Teddy and Elliot Roosevelt can be seen in the window of the building)

Teddy Roosevelt watching Lincoln fneral procession in New York CityWhen Franklin Roosevelt, a distant cousin of Teddy Roosevelt, died on April 12, 1945 in Warm Springs, Georgia it had been only six weeks since his inauguration for an unprecedented fourth term.  Since World War II was still being fought overseas it was determined that the funeral plans should be subdued.  Franklin’s body was transferred by train to Washington, D.C. arriving on April 14 where it was set onto a caisson with a military guard as it traveled from Union Station to the White House where the casket was set on a catafalque in the East Room.  A private funeral service was held at the White House which was attended by immediate family, friends, members of Congress and other foreign dignitaries while flags were lowered at half-staff at both the White House and the Capitol.  Roosevelt’s casket was reloaded on to the caisson to be taken back to Union Station to travel to Hyde Park, New York for burial at the Roosevelt Estate, Springwood.  (Shown below are two photos of the funeral of FDR at Springwood in Hyde Park, NY.  For more information on the FDR National Historic Park which was Roosevelt’s childhood home and his final resting place, please click on the link)

FDR - funeral 1  FDR - funeral 2

John Kennedy was the most recent president to die while in office when he was assassinated on November 22, 1963 in Dallas, Texas.  Perhaps one of the most tragic passing of a president due to the fact that the country was witness to the event as it was broadcast on national television.  The body of Kennedy was transferred from Texas to Washington, D.C. aboard the presidential plane, Air Force One.  Jacqueline Kennedy, the president’s widow, sent instructions to the White House staff to begin preparations for a state funeral with many elements similar to Lincoln’s funeral which happened almost a century earlier, extensive research was done so as not to miss any details.  The East Room at the White House was draped in black material and a private service was held for the immediate family.

JFK funeral - White House interior draped in black  JFK funeral - White House interior draped in black 1

JFK funeral - White House interior draped in black 2JFK - East room 1Then, two days later the flag-draped coffin was loaded on a horse-drawn caisson, the same one used for FDR, and taken from the White House as rows of soldiers lined the driveway with the flags from the 50 states.  The procession continued down Pennsylvania Ave to the U.S. Capitol accompanied by the sound of muffled drums were Kennedy lay in state for several days in the Rotunda while several thousands of people lined up for the public viewing while a military honor guard stood watch, because of the amount of people waiting the time of the viewing extended well into the night.  Meanwhile, state and foreign dignitaries started to gather in Washington, D.C. for the funeral created major security problems for law enforcement officials.

The State Funeral for President Kennedy was held on November 25 and the day started with a procession from the U.S. Capitol back to the White House and then on to St. Matthew Catholic Church and a final burial at Arlington National Cemetery.  Approximately one million people lined the route and the entire nation watched the entire funeral broadcast on television.  (The assassination of President Kennedy is one of those moments in time that people of my generation will remember exactly where they were when they heard the news and who can forget the quiet dignity of Mrs. Kennedy, the young widow, holding the hand of her young daughter, Caroline or image of “John-John” saluting his father’s casket.)  

JFK - funeral

Presidential Funerals Traditions and Customs

Flag at half-staff –

At the death of the president an executive order is given to lower the United States flag to half-staff on all federal government buildings and offices, military bases and public schools as a sign of honor and respect, any other flags flying over the same buildings will also be lowered to half-staff.  The order usually indicates that the flags remain at half-staff for a period of thirty days.  The sitting president can also issue an executive order for all federal departments and their buildings to be closed on a national day of mourning for a state funeral.    

Ford funeral - flag at half mast

Lay in state –

President Abraham Lincoln was the first president lay in state in the U.S. Capitol Rotunda, since that time there have been 11 presidents accorded the same privilege.  A president who dies while in office customarily lies in repose in the East Room of the White House and then is moved in a solemn procession to the U.S. Capitol.  A former president can also lay in state at their home or, if one has been built, their presidential library before being given the optional honor of being moved to Washington, D.C. where they lay in lay in the Capitol rotunda.

Once the body of the president has arrived at the Capitol Rotunda the casket is placed on top of the Lincoln catafalque for a special memorial service attended by the president’s family, the members of the U.S. Congress and other dignitaries, floral wreaths are set near the catafalque in honor the deceased.  Soldiers comprised of each branch of the U.S. Armed Forces will stand guard while the room is then open to the general public for viewing.

Ford funeral - US Capitol

Special Note:  The Lincoln catafalque is the same one used in 1865 to hold the casket of Abraham Lincoln and since that time it has been used for anyone that is lies in state in the U.S. Capitol Rotunda.  When not in use, the catafalque is stored in a special vaulted chamber located at the Capitol Visitor Center as shown in the photo below.

Lincoln catafalque in the Washington'sTomb at the US Capitol

Funeral processions –

For a presidential state funeral a procession travels down either Pennsylvania or Constitution Avenue from the White House to the U.S. Capitol.  The flag draped casket is placed onto a military caisson pulled by a matching set of six horses accompanied by three riders with eight military soldiers marching alongside (four on each side) of the caisson.  For a funeral procession of a president who dies while in office, the casket/caisson will leave from the North Portico of the White House and proceed down Pennsylvania Ave. to the U.S. Capitol while a former president’s casket will be transferred from a hearse meet near the South Lawn of the White House, placed onto the caisson and then will proceed down Constitution Ave. 

In general, in front of the presidential casket and caisson in the funeral procession are usually three military units with members representing the five branches of the U.S. Armed Forces, accompanying each unit is a military band and a color guard.  Following the casket/caisson is a riderless horse and then a motorcade consisting of the deceased president’s family, government officials and foreign dignitaries.  Then, as the procession nears the halfway point between the White House and the U.S. Capitol there is a military flyover consisting of 21 aircraft from the U.S. Air Force.  The aircraft fly in formation and the third aircraft in the final unit will perform a maneuver known as the “missing man” by briefly veering away from the formation as a sign of honor and respect for the deceased president.  Upon reaching the U.S. Capitol, the funeral procession will traditionally stop at the east front of the building.  Special Note:  One exception to this custom was for Ronald Reagan who had requested that his casket be brought into the west front of the Capitol because this side of the building faces his beloved California where he had previously served as the Governor.   

Caisson –

As previously mentioned, in a state funeral procession of a president sometimes the casket is placed on a caisson.  A caisson is a two wheel horse drawn wagon which was originally used to transport ammunition during military battles, the caisson used in presidential funeral procession was built in 1918 to carry a 75mm cannon.  The caisson is attached to a limber which is a separate two-wheel horse drawn wagon; the original purpose of a limber was for moving two-wheel canons into position on a battlefield for firing at enemy targets. (Shown below is the caisson used at the funeral of John Kennedy)

JFK Funeral Procession

Riderless horse –

A riderless horse in a presidential funeral procession usually follows the casket/caisson and it is a distinct honor for U.S. presidents, it is also given to high ranking military officers of the U.S. Army or Marines.  A single military guard will lead the horse with a pair of riding boots customarily reversed in the stirrups; this is traditionally a symbol of a fallen soldier who will never ride again.  This custom was first used in 1799 for the funeral procession for George Washington which took place in Philadelphia, PA; Washington’s boots, saddle, holsters and pistols were also used.  In 1865 for the funeral procession of Abraham Lincoln in Springfield, IL a horse named “Old Bob” draped with a black mourning blanket with fringe.  For the funeral procession of John Kennedy in 1963 a horse named “Black Jack” was used, the famous horse was one of the last military horses to be branded with the Army’s US brand and he was also used for the state funerals of Presidents Herbert Hoover and Lyndon Johnson.  In 2004 for the funeral procession of Ronald Reagan a horse named “Sergeant York” was used along with personal saddle and riding boots of the former president reversed in the stirrups; a ceremonial sword was also attached to the saddle.  (The first photo shown below is the riderless horse used at Lincoln’s funeral, the second photo on the left is the horse used at Kennedy’s funeral and the third photo on the right is the horse used at Reagan’s funeral)      

riderless horse - Lincoln funeral 1 crop

riderless horse - JFK funeral - Black Jack 1  TF EAGLE EYE

Funeral service –

In general, a presidential funeral service is traditionally held at the Washington National Cathedral in Washington, D.C but this decision is up to the president as determined per his request or his family.  In the case of the only Catholic president to date, John Kennedy, the Cathedral of St. Matthew the Apostle was selected.  Invited to the service are the president’s family and friends as well as former presidents and members of congress, various federal and state politicians and foreign heads of state and other dignitaries.  The president’s immediate family is seated in the first rows and then other seating is determined by protocol with federal government officials and then foreign heads of state usually seated in alphabetical order to avoid any pleasantries.  When the National Cathedral being used the president’s extended family sit on the south transept and military officers to the north. (Shown in the photo below is the funeral service for Ronald Reagan held at the National Cathedral in Washington, D.C. in 2004)

Immediately after the service, the casket is transported to the final resting place for burial.  Unlike Lincoln’s long drawn out journey by train from Washington D.C. to Springfield, IL which took 19 days, with modern and fast transportation by an airplane departing from Andrews Naval Base the burial can normally be done within the same day. The plane is usually meet at its destination with honor guards, a military band and a 21 gun salute as the casket is taken from the plane and put into a waiting hearse to be taken to the burial site.

Military honors –

Given the fact that the U.S. President of the United States is the Commander in Chief of the U.S. Armed Forces he is accorded full military honors.  During the service at the burial site there traditionally will be a 21 gun salute which is performed by seven military honor guards and they will fire their rifles simultaneously three times.  Another honor performed at the burial site during the interment will be a bugle call, traditionally known as Taps, played by a member of the United States Marine Band who is located a short distance away.  Another military honor is the aircraft flyby done by the United States Air Force for a final time with the missing man formation similar to the one performed during the funeral procession in Washington D.C.  (Shown below is the bugler from the Kennedy burial service at Arlington National Cemetery in 1963)

JFK funeral - bugler

One final honor at a presidential funeral is the folding of the flag of the United States and the presentation to the president’s spouse.  At the completion of the service at the grave site, the flag draped over the casket is ceremoniously folded twelve times by a military honor guard of eight soldiers, four stationed on each side of the casket.  The folded flag, now in the shape of a triangle is solemnly presented.  (Shown below in the photos are on the left the flag folding ceremony at John Kennedy’s grave site service and on the left is the flag presentation to Jaqueline Kennedy)   

  JFK funeral - flag folding Mrs Kennedy 1