Decor – Funeral decorations and memorbilia

This month in honor of Presidents Day I wrote a post on Presidential Funerals in which I discussed the traditions and customs involved in the planning of these events. Personally, in recent years I have helped to plan several funerals for family members and in the process I have searched the internet for ideas.  In general, craft information to create decorations or displays for a funeral are difficult to find and most websites that I found on the internet were for ready-made items to purchase.  In this post I discuss the numerous funeral or memorial items that I have made and I will also offer suggestions for additional items.  When planning the elements for a funeral or memorial service the focus should be on the deceased person and all the items used should in some way reflect their personality, interests or have special meaning that tells the story of their life.

Funeral or memorial service decorations

To start the decorations for a funeral or memorial service it is a good idea to have a welcome table for the invited guests which will usually be set up in the vestibule of a church or in the hallway or just inside the door of a mortuary lobby.   Place a large photo of the deceased person on the table along with some smaller photos, some type of book for guests to sign or write their memories of the deceased person.  A welcome table it is also a great place to set the funeral or memorial programs and holy cards for guests to pick up.  For my mom’s rosary service the night before her funeral we placed several photos on the tables around the room which we mixed in with the many floral arrangements. (Decor Tip:  For smaller photos use frames that have an easel backing or for larger photos in bigger frames use metal or wooden stands)        

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For the service of my husband’s grandmother we set out the scrapbook which I had for the 60th anniversary of his grandparents on the welcome table, the book highlighted the couple’s life together throughout the years and it was wonderful for the guests to be able to glance through before the service.  (Craft Tip: This type of retrospective scrapbook is a relatively easy craft project to create in a few hours.  All that is needed are a photo album, several photos depicting the deceased throughout their life, a supply of scrapbook paper and some stickers or other embellishments)

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Another type of display arrangement to create for a funeral or memorial service is by incorporating memorabilia of the deceased person.  For my husband’s grandfather’s service his special Pearl Harbor Survivor hats were set out on the table.  For my husband’s grandmother’s service several of her paintings were set out on the mantel of a fireplace with a specially made shadowbox displaying her many art show ribbons collected throughout the years. 

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For the memorial service for my husband’s nephew, I made a wreath decorated with artificial flowers and butterflies for the welcome table, butterflies were the general theme of the service (look for a photo of this wreath later in this post).  Since the deceased was a young boy, his mother wanted to display his many sports awards and also his school projects made throughout the years.  On the fireplace mantel in the room we set out more framed photos, sports awards and a stack of his favorite books.  Before the service started the guests moved about the room looking at all the displays.

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The elements or parts of a funeral or memorial service

When planning a funeral or memorial service there are usually numerous decisions to make in regards to selecting songs, prayers or poems.  Much like the choices made for the decorations, when planning the elements for a funeral or memorial service the focus should be on the deceased person and the selections made should reflect their personality, interests or have special meaning. 

A wonderful element for a funeral or a memorial service is a personalized video presentation which includes a selection of photos showing the life of the deceased person set to specially selected music.  Together my husband and I have done this for the funeral and memorial services of several relatives (and also for various milestone birthdays or anniversaries).  There are many different applications and programs that can be used to create a video and the one that you choose comes down to personal preference.

There are several things to keep in mind when making a personalized video for a funeral or memorial service.  The first thing to consider are that the photos chosen should span the years of the deceased person.  We usually select photos from childhood through to the end of their life including memorable events, special occasions or other milestones. Shown below is an unusual photo of the hands of three generations of women in my family which was taken just a few years before my mother passed away, the hands are of my mother, myself and my daughter.  We used this as the “title photo” for the video which listed her full name, date of birth and date of death.  (Special Tip: One thing to keep in mind when selecting photos is to try to include the family and friends that will be attending the service.  The second thing to consider is the music selection and it should be a song that holds special meaning.  Maybe the song could be the deceased person’s favorite song by their favorite musical artist or maybe one that you personally selected because of the meaning of the lyrics or a classical song or a church hymn.  Another Special Tip: In the past when we have created a video for a funeral we have used only one song and selected the number of photos to fill the time from the beginning to end of the song.  We found the length of one song, usually 2 to 4 minutes, works best because it holds the attention of the guests)

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Another element that we used for my husband’s nephew’s memorial service was a special butterfly release.  The mother wanted the service to be a celebration of her son’s life, so at the end of the service the guests were invited outside to witness the release of the butterflies.  The immediate family members including grandparents, aunts and uncles said a few words before releasing individual butterflies and to conclude this portion of the service the parents and siblings of the boy released a large basket of several butterflies which fluttered into the afternoon sky providing a wonderful symbolic gesture and proved to be a very emotional end to the service. (Source Tip:  When planning the event we searched the internet for a local source for the butterfly release.  There is a little preparation involved with a butterfly release but it is worth the effort)

Another element to a funeral or memorial service are the items worn by the people taking part in the service.  For my mother’s funeral I made the boutonnieres for the pallbearers to wear, my mother had requested that all of her grandchildren carry her coffin into the chapel.  Her grandsons and grand-daughters wore white roses, my mother’s favorite flower, on their left side pined over their hearts.  I used artificial roses, a few leaves, green floral tape to create the boutonnieres and provided long pearl topped pins to fasten them to the shirts or dresses of the grandchildren.  (Craft Tip: Flowers chosen for a boutonniere can be traditional lilies, roses or perhaps the favorite flower of the deceased person)

Funeral boutonniere

Another item that I made for my sisters and myself to wear at my mother’s funeral service were special medallion brooches.  I found the metal and glass medallions at my local craft store, selected a photo of my mother and father which I copied and then minimized the size to fit the medallion.  Then I tied a black ribbon bow with a safety pin attached to use to pin it to our clothes.  Since both my mother and father had now passed away I wanted to honor their memory and also designate at the funeral that we were their daughters.  Something this simple to create was noticed by the guests at the funeral and I received many compliments about the medallions.  (Special Note: As a very meaningful gesture, I made two special medallions which I placed in my mother’s coffin.  One had a photo of her with her parents and siblings and the other was a photo of her with my dad and her four daughters)

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For the memorial service of my husband’s nephew we used a theme of butterflies and I purchased inexpensive artificial butterflies from my local craft store which we pinned to the clothing of the immediate family, grandparents, aunts, uncles and great-grandparents.  This was a wonderful way to incorporate the theme of the service and also to identify the relatives of the deceased boy.

Preserving the memorabilia of a funeral or memorial service

After a funeral or memorial service there is sometimes memorabilia to preserve or to honor the deceased person.  The first item shown below was actually used at my wedding and was something I created to honor my father who had passed away several years earlier.  I used a photo of my father and found a special poem on the internet that I printed on my home computer and it perfectly reflected my feelings about him.  Shown below is the special memorial piece that I placed on a table with a floral arrangement and some candles.  I used a simple wooden frame, selected a double photo mat and then inserted both my father’s photo and the special poem.  Even though this item was used for a wedding the idea could also be a special piece to display on the welcome table at the funeral or memorial service or could be used afterwards to display in a home to remember and honor a deceased person.  Another idea instead of a traditional frame is to use a shadowbox frame that could include a boutonniere or flower from the funeral or memorial service.  

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The next two items were created to preserve the memory of my husband’s nephew.  The first was the special wreath I created to displayed on the “welcome table” at the memorial service and it was saved to be used afterwards for a front door decoration.  I used a simple grapevine wreath, flowers and 12 blue butterflies were also attached to the wreath to reference the age of the boy at the time of his death.  The second item I created was a special piece which I presented to the mother after the service.  I used the program from the memorial service, some of the flowers and stems from the wreath and two of the butterflies which were originally used as boutonnieres.

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For my mother’s funeral service I wanted to create a very special and sentimental wreath. The floral wreath that I made features white roses which were my Mother’s favorite flower. I used six white full roses to represent my parents and their four daughters, nine white rose buds to represent their nine grandchildren.  I finished the wreath with green hydrangeas and berries in a lovely pastel shade of rose pink.  By creating this special wreath instead of purchasing one from the local floral shop turned out to be a blessing.  Let me explain why it was a cathartic experience, first by taking the time to make the wreath I was able to honor my mother’s creative talent which was something she passed on to me.  Second, as I made the wreath I was able take the time to reflect on my memories of her and start to process my grief from her passing.  I still use the wreath as a floral decoration for my front door and instead of making me sad it brings me serenity and peace in remembering and honoring my mother.

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Presidential Funerals

During the month of February we celebrate President’s Day and I thought I would take the opportunity to talk about Presidential Funerals.  In recent years, a sitting president (meaning a current president still in office) will start to plan his funeral.  I know it sounds a little morbid for a person to plan their funeral when they are still living, but in the case of a State funeral held in the nation’s capital advance planning is needed to coordinate the many details involved such as the lying in state, the funeral procession and service, followed by the interment or burial. 

So, let’s start by discussing the funeral of the first President of the United States, George Washington, and then move forward to more recent time.

When George Washington died in 1799 at his home at Mount Vernon, Virginia and it had only been two years since he had voluntarily left the office of President of the United States.  Four days after his death his immediate family held a funeral at a church near Mount Vernon with traditional Masonic funeral rites and he was interred in a vault located a short distance away closer to the Potomac River.  Since news traveled very slowly, by the time the people in Philadelphia (the U.S. Capital at that time) heard that Washington had died Congress immediately called for December 26 to be a day of official mourning.  That day started with a sixteen cannon salute, followed by a procession of the members of Congress, military units and others to the Zion Lutheran Church for a memorial service.  Initially Congress had requested that Washington remains be moved to the new national capital being built, which was renamed Washington, D.C. in his honor, and although the family this request Washington remains stayed at Mt. Vernon.  (Shown below in the first photo is the Washington procession in Philadelphia, the next photo shows the Washington grave site at Mt. Vernon. For more visitor information about planning a trip to Mount Vernon or information on the history of the Washington Monument and how it came to be built in Washington D.C. please click on the links)

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As the 50th anniversary of the Declaration of Independence was being planned two of the original founding fathers were on their deathbeds; John Adams in Quincy, Massachusetts and Thomas Jefferson at Monticello in Virginia.  After a falling out in their relationship over opposing political views, the two former Presidents of the United States had near the end of their lives renewed their friendship and correspondence.  On July 4, 1826, each knew the other was seriously ill and Jefferson died earlier in the day and then Adams just five hours later.  Per Jefferson’s request a small service was held the day after his death in Charlottesville, Virginia with a private burial at Monticello attended by only his immediate family and close friends; a granite obelisk marks the gravesite with a simple inscription according to Jefferson wishes.  (The two photos below show the Jefferson gravesite at Monticello.  For more information about Jefferson’s Monticello estate, please click on the link) 

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The funeral of Adams started with the firing of ceremonial cannons, a procession including the Governor of Massachusetts and other prominent political men, followed by a funeral service held at a church attended by over 4,000 people before Adams was interred in Hancock Cemetery.  Years later, a basement crypt was built in the basement of the United First Parish Church across from the cemetery and is the final resting place of John and Abigail Adams.  (Shown below are two photos of the grave site of Adams)  

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The first president to die while still in office was William Harrison on April 4, 1841.  President Harrison is known to have given the longest inaugural speech and to have served the shortest term as president, it was only 30 days.  It has been said that his two hour speech in the cold and wet weather led to his illness and subsequent death from pneumonia.  At the time of Harrison’s death there was still not a regulated procedure for dealing with the funerals of the presidents so the White House was draped in black and a religious service by invitation only that was held in the East Room, it was the first State funeral.  Later there was another service held back in Cincinnati, Ohio and Harrison was interred at the Congressional Cemetery in Washington, D.C. but then he was re-interred in North Bend, Ohio.

When Abraham Lincoln was assassinated on April 14, 1865, the news spread quickly throughout the country due to the telegraph system of communication and it was the first time there was an official national mourning period.  Lincoln’s body lay in state for several days with an honor guard keeping watch day and night while the general public was allowed to pay their respects.  In the East Room a special catafalque was built for the casket which was set on a raised platform with a canopy overhead supported by four pillars and covered with black cloth lined with white silk.  (Shown below is Lincoln’s catafalque in the East Room of the White House)

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A brief service was held in the Green Room on April 19 and then a funeral procession made its way from the White House slowly down Pennsylvania Ave. to the U.S. Capitol in a specially built hearse carriage drawn by a team of six gray horses.  Lincoln lay in state in the Capitol Rotunda until April 20 and on the morning of April 21 a final prayer service was held with Lincoln’s cabinet in attendance and afterwards the hearse carriage made its way to the train station, it moved slowly through the streets of Washington, D.C.  Once at the railway station Lincoln’s casket was loaded onto a special funeral train for a long journey to Springfield, Illinois.  The train would make the 1,700 mile journey through 7 states stopping in several major cities along the route, including New York, Indianapolis and Chicago.  This was the first time that a train was used to transfer a president’s casket for burial in another state.  With every stop there would be a funeral service before finally reaching Springfield 19 days later where he was finally interred at Oak Ridge Cemetery.  The Lincoln tomb features a 117 foot tall obelisk, a terrace and elaborate bronze statues at the base; Lincoln is actually buried in a cement vault 10 feet below the floor.  Special Note:  Mary Todd Lincoln, the president’s wife, remained in Washington D.C. at the White House because she was too distraught to make the trip for the burial and she returned to their Springfield home about a month later.  (Shown below in the first photo is the carriage which carried the body of Lincoln from the White House to the U.S. Capitol, the second photo shows the funeral train which carried Lincoln’s body back to Springfield and the final photo shows the train’s route across the country from Washington, D.C. to Springfield, Illinois)

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The photos below show the exterior and interior of the Lincoln Tomb in Springfield, IL. For more information on Lincoln’s Springfield home and the Lincoln Tomb, please click on the link.

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Special Historical Fact:  Several years after the death of President Lincoln a historian was looking through photos of the funeral procession when it had passed through New York City on April 25, 1865.  In a strange coincidence, shown in the photo are a very young Teddy Roosevelt, the future President of the United States, and his brother Elliot in the window of the home of their grandfather, Cornelius Roosevelt, which was located on Broadway.  (Shown below in the upper left portion of the photo Teddy and Elliot Roosevelt can be seen in the window of the building)

Teddy Roosevelt watching Lincoln fneral procession in New York CityWhen Franklin Roosevelt, a distant cousin of Teddy Roosevelt, died on April 12, 1945 in Warm Springs, Georgia it had been only six weeks since his inauguration for an unprecedented fourth term.  Since World War II was still being fought overseas it was determined that the funeral plans should be subdued.  Franklin’s body was transferred by train to Washington, D.C. arriving on April 14 where it was set onto a caisson with a military guard as it traveled from Union Station to the White House where the casket was set on a catafalque in the East Room.  A private funeral service was held at the White House which was attended by immediate family, friends, members of Congress and other foreign dignitaries while flags were lowered at half-staff at both the White House and the Capitol.  Roosevelt’s casket was reloaded on to the caisson to be taken back to Union Station to travel to Hyde Park, New York for burial at the Roosevelt Estate, Springwood.  (Shown below are two photos of the funeral of FDR at Springwood in Hyde Park, NY.  For more information on the FDR National Historic Park which was Roosevelt’s childhood home and his final resting place, please click on the link)

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John Kennedy was the most recent president to die while in office when he was assassinated on November 22, 1963 in Dallas, Texas.  Perhaps one of the most tragic passing of a president due to the fact that the country was witness to the event as it was broadcast on national television.  The body of Kennedy was transferred from Texas to Washington, D.C. aboard the presidential plane, Air Force One.  Jacqueline Kennedy, the president’s widow, sent instructions to the White House staff to begin preparations for a state funeral with many elements similar to Lincoln’s funeral which happened almost a century earlier, extensive research was done so as not to miss any details.  The East Room at the White House was draped in black material and a private service was held for the immediate family.

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JFK funeral - White House interior draped in black 2JFK - East room 1Then, two days later the flag-draped coffin was loaded on a horse-drawn caisson, the same one used for FDR, and taken from the White House as rows of soldiers lined the driveway with the flags from the 50 states.  The procession continued down Pennsylvania Ave to the U.S. Capitol accompanied by the sound of muffled drums were Kennedy lay in state for several days in the Rotunda while several thousands of people lined up for the public viewing while a military honor guard stood watch, because of the amount of people waiting the time of the viewing extended well into the night.  Meanwhile, state and foreign dignitaries started to gather in Washington, D.C. for the funeral created major security problems for law enforcement officials.

The State Funeral for President Kennedy was held on November 25 and the day started with a procession from the U.S. Capitol back to the White House and then on to St. Matthew Catholic Church and a final burial at Arlington National Cemetery.  Approximately one million people lined the route and the entire nation watched the entire funeral broadcast on television.  (The assassination of President Kennedy is one of those moments in time that people of my generation will remember exactly where they were when they heard the news and who can forget the quiet dignity of Mrs. Kennedy, the young widow, holding the hand of her young daughter, Caroline or image of “John-John” saluting his father’s casket.)  

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Presidential Funerals Traditions and Customs

Flag at half-staff –

At the death of the president an executive order is given to lower the United States flag to half-staff on all federal government buildings and offices, military bases and public schools as a sign of honor and respect, any other flags flying over the same buildings will also be lowered to half-staff.  The order usually indicates that the flags remain at half-staff for a period of thirty days.  The sitting president can also issue an executive order for all federal departments and their buildings to be closed on a national day of mourning for a state funeral.    

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Lay in state –

President Abraham Lincoln was the first president lay in state in the U.S. Capitol Rotunda, since that time there have been 11 presidents accorded the same privilege.  A president who dies while in office customarily lies in repose in the East Room of the White House and then is moved in a solemn procession to the U.S. Capitol.  A former president can also lay in state at their home or, if one has been built, their presidential library before being given the optional honor of being moved to Washington, D.C. where they lay in lay in the Capitol rotunda.

Once the body of the president has arrived at the Capitol Rotunda the casket is placed on top of the Lincoln catafalque for a special memorial service attended by the president’s family, the members of the U.S. Congress and other dignitaries, floral wreaths are set near the catafalque in honor the deceased.  Soldiers comprised of each branch of the U.S. Armed Forces will stand guard while the room is then open to the general public for viewing.

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Special Note:  The Lincoln catafalque is the same one used in 1865 to hold the casket of Abraham Lincoln and since that time it has been used for anyone that is lies in state in the U.S. Capitol Rotunda.  When not in use, the catafalque is stored in a special vaulted chamber located at the Capitol Visitor Center as shown in the photo below.

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Funeral processions –

For a presidential state funeral a procession travels down either Pennsylvania or Constitution Avenue from the White House to the U.S. Capitol.  The flag draped casket is placed onto a military caisson pulled by a matching set of six horses accompanied by three riders with eight military soldiers marching alongside (four on each side) of the caisson.  For a funeral procession of a president who dies while in office, the casket/caisson will leave from the North Portico of the White House and proceed down Pennsylvania Ave. to the U.S. Capitol while a former president’s casket will be transferred from a hearse meet near the South Lawn of the White House, placed onto the caisson and then will proceed down Constitution Ave. 

In general, in front of the presidential casket and caisson in the funeral procession are usually three military units with members representing the five branches of the U.S. Armed Forces, accompanying each unit is a military band and a color guard.  Following the casket/caisson is a riderless horse and then a motorcade consisting of the deceased president’s family, government officials and foreign dignitaries.  Then, as the procession nears the halfway point between the White House and the U.S. Capitol there is a military flyover consisting of 21 aircraft from the U.S. Air Force.  The aircraft fly in formation and the third aircraft in the final unit will perform a maneuver known as the “missing man” by briefly veering away from the formation as a sign of honor and respect for the deceased president.  Upon reaching the U.S. Capitol, the funeral procession will traditionally stop at the east front of the building.  Special Note:  One exception to this custom was for Ronald Reagan who had requested that his casket be brought into the west front of the Capitol because this side of the building faces his beloved California where he had previously served as the Governor.   

Caisson –

As previously mentioned, in a state funeral procession of a president sometimes the casket is placed on a caisson.  A caisson is a two wheel horse drawn wagon which was originally used to transport ammunition during military battles, the caisson used in presidential funeral procession was built in 1918 to carry a 75mm cannon.  The caisson is attached to a limber which is a separate two-wheel horse drawn wagon; the original purpose of a limber was for moving two-wheel canons into position on a battlefield for firing at enemy targets. (Shown below is the caisson used at the funeral of John Kennedy)

JFK Funeral Procession

Riderless horse –

A riderless horse in a presidential funeral procession usually follows the casket/caisson and it is a distinct honor for U.S. presidents, it is also given to high ranking military officers of the U.S. Army or Marines.  A single military guard will lead the horse with a pair of riding boots customarily reversed in the stirrups; this is traditionally a symbol of a fallen soldier who will never ride again.  This custom was first used in 1799 for the funeral procession for George Washington which took place in Philadelphia, PA; Washington’s boots, saddle, holsters and pistols were also used.  In 1865 for the funeral procession of Abraham Lincoln in Springfield, IL a horse named “Old Bob” draped with a black mourning blanket with fringe.  For the funeral procession of John Kennedy in 1963 a horse named “Black Jack” was used, the famous horse was one of the last military horses to be branded with the Army’s US brand and he was also used for the state funerals of Presidents Herbert Hoover and Lyndon Johnson.  In 2004 for the funeral procession of Ronald Reagan a horse named “Sergeant York” was used along with personal saddle and riding boots of the former president reversed in the stirrups; a ceremonial sword was also attached to the saddle.  (The first photo shown below is the riderless horse used at Lincoln’s funeral, the second photo on the left is the horse used at Kennedy’s funeral and the third photo on the right is the horse used at Reagan’s funeral)      

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Funeral service –

In general, a presidential funeral service is traditionally held at the Washington National Cathedral in Washington, D.C but this decision is up to the president as determined per his request or his family.  In the case of the only Catholic president to date, John Kennedy, the Cathedral of St. Matthew the Apostle was selected.  Invited to the service are the president’s family and friends as well as former presidents and members of congress, various federal and state politicians and foreign heads of state and other dignitaries.  The president’s immediate family is seated in the first rows and then other seating is determined by protocol with federal government officials and then foreign heads of state usually seated in alphabetical order to avoid any pleasantries.  When the National Cathedral being used the president’s extended family sit on the south transept and military officers to the north. (Shown in the photo below is the funeral service for Ronald Reagan held at the National Cathedral in Washington, D.C. in 2004)

Immediately after the service, the casket is transported to the final resting place for burial.  Unlike Lincoln’s long drawn out journey by train from Washington D.C. to Springfield, IL which took 19 days, with modern and fast transportation by an airplane departing from Andrews Naval Base the burial can normally be done within the same day. The plane is usually meet at its destination with honor guards, a military band and a 21 gun salute as the casket is taken from the plane and put into a waiting hearse to be taken to the burial site.

Military honors –

Given the fact that the U.S. President of the United States is the Commander in Chief of the U.S. Armed Forces he is accorded full military honors.  During the service at the burial site there traditionally will be a 21 gun salute which is performed by seven military honor guards and they will fire their rifles simultaneously three times.  Another honor performed at the burial site during the interment will be a bugle call, traditionally known as Taps, played by a member of the United States Marine Band who is located a short distance away.  Another military honor is the aircraft flyby done by the United States Air Force for a final time with the missing man formation similar to the one performed during the funeral procession in Washington D.C.  (Shown below is the bugler from the Kennedy burial service at Arlington National Cemetery in 1963)

JFK funeral - bugler

One final honor at a presidential funeral is the folding of the flag of the United States and the presentation to the president’s spouse.  At the completion of the service at the grave site, the flag draped over the casket is ceremoniously folded twelve times by a military honor guard of eight soldiers, four stationed on each side of the casket.  The folded flag, now in the shape of a triangle is solemnly presented.  (Shown below in the photos are on the left the flag folding ceremony at John Kennedy’s grave site service and on the left is the flag presentation to Jaqueline Kennedy)   

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Travel – Franklin D. Roosevelt National Historic Site

FDR National Historic Site sign

In honor of Franklin Delano Roosevelt (born: January 30, 1882 died: April 12, 1945) this Travel post is about the Franklin D. Roosevelt National Historic Site located in Hyde Park along the Hudson River about 90 miles north of New York City, NY.  In this post I will discuss the history of the Roosevelt estate in Hyde Park and give a tour of the numerous buildings located there including Springwood which was FDR’s childhood home, where he lived for most of his life and where he is buried.  I will also discuss Top Cottage which FDR used as his private retreat, the nearby Val-Kill which was the personal home of Eleanor Roosevelt in the later years and the FDR Presidential Library & Museum which are all located at the Franklin D. Roosevelt National Historic Site.

A brief history of the Roosevelt Estate in Hyde Park, NY

In 1697, a large land grant of 220 square miles was given by the English King William III to a group of nine businessmen from New York City.  Each of the nine land parcels was divided equally with access to the Hudson River.  Located near Hyde Park, one of the land grants went to William Creed who built the original house on the property.  In 1845, the property was purchased by Josiah Wheeler and the existing Federal style house was renovated into a larger Italianate style house. 

Then, in 1866 when James Roosevelt bought the Springwood estate it comprised of about 640 acres of land on which sat the house and a recently built stable and horse track.  At the time Roosevelt was the vice president of the Delaware and Hudson Railway and he was married to his first wife, Rebecca Howland and they had a son named James Roosevelt.  After Rebecca died in 1876, Roosevelt married Sara Delano in 1880 and they had one son named Franklin Delano Roosevelt (the future 32nd President of the United States), he was born in the second floor master bedroom.  Roosevelt continued to make improvements to Springwood, such as expanding the size of the house to include additional rooms, enlarging the servant’s quarters and building a large carriage house nearby on the property.  Roosevelt died in 1900, probably as a result of his recurring heart problems, and he left the Springwood estate and all his other holdings to Sara and Franklin only received a small monetary inheritance.

Young Franklin with his parents  Franklin and Eleanor with their children 1919

Springwood - prior to 1915 renovations

Franklin was very close to his over-protective mother and had agreed to remain at Springwood after his marriage to Eleanor in 1905.  By 1915, Franklin was working with the architectural design firm of Hoppin and Koen from New York City to build two large additional sections faced with fieldstone and a third floor with more rooms which doubled the size of the original house.  The clapboard exterior of the house was replaced with stucco, a small portico with elegant columns was added to the front entrance and the old porch was replaced by a wider terrace made of more fieldstone.  Of course, Franklin’s mother financed all these renovations and she also decorated the interior of the house to her own personal style incorporating Franklin’s book, stamp and coin collections into the design while leaving Eleanor very little room to make her own choices for the home.  Eventually, two additional structures were built on the property; Top Cottage which was a stone cottage built as Franklin’s personal retreat and Val-Kill a modest house Eleanor used quite frequently.

Franklin and Eleanor with Sara Roosevelt - 1920  Franklin and Eleanor with their children 2

During Franklin’s presidency the Roosevelt Estate in Hyde Park became known as the “Summer White House”.  Franklin and Eleanor hosted many prominent national and international visitors, perhaps the most famous guests were King George VI and Queen Elizabeth in June 1939.  After the Royal couple toured Canada, New York City and then Washington D.C. for a few days they were invited to join the Roosevelts for a more relaxing time at Hyde Park.  This was a very historical moment because it was the first time a reigning monarch of England had visited the United States.  It was also the perfect opportunity    to form stronger political and social alliances between the two countries as Britain and Europe were heading toward another war.  In contrast to the formal State Dinner held a few days earlier at the White House, the menu planned at Hyde Park was a simple picnic luncheon of hot dogs and beer!  The end result was that the visit of the charming Royal couple was a huge success with the American public and three months later England declared war on Germany and Roosevelt was able to convince Congress to take steps to send aid.

Royal visit - June 1939

During the 12 years of Franklin’s presidency he often came home to Hyde Park and he always returned on the eve of elections and when he had won his four presidential terms he would deliver his victory speech from the front terrace of Springwood. In 1939, near the end of his second term, Franklin was looking forward and preparing to have his presidential papers and other historical records contained in one place to preserve the collection for scholars and historians to research and review in the years to come.  The Franklin D. Roosevelt Presidential Library and Museum was built at Hyde Park and completed in 1941.  When it opened to the public shortly thereafter it became the first Presidential Library which set precedence for the future.  (For more information on the Franklin D. Roosevelt Presidential Library and Museum, please look for the section later in this post)

FDR with family on election night 1936 Franklin and Eleanor at home

In March 1945, Franklin made his last to Hyde Park before traveling to Warm Springs, Georgia for some rest after winning his fourth term as President.  By this time, Franklin was in very poor health and he died on April 12, 1945 at the age of 63.  Per his request he is buried in the Rose Garden of Springwood.  Prior to his death, Franklin had made plans to donate the Roosevelt Estate in Hyde Park to the American public with the stipulation that his family would maintain a lifetime right to usage of the property.  After his death, the Roosevelt family relinquished their rights and the estate was given to the U.S. Department of the Interior as a National Historic Site to be opened to the public and administered by the National Park Service.  By this time Sara Roosevelt, Franklin’s mother had died in September 1941 and following her husband’s death Eleanor had continued to live at Val-Kill, her personal home on the estate, dividing her time between there and an apartment in New York City.  She continued to travel both nationally and internationally working hard for her political causes until she died on November 7, 1962 at the age of 78, she is buried beside her husband in Hyde Park.         

FDR - funeral 1  FDR - funeral 2

FDR gravesite

The Home of Franklin D. Roosevelt National Historic Site

When planning a trip to the Franklin D. Roosevelt National Historic Site I would consider scheduling a whole day at Hyde Park because there are numerous buildings to tour on the estate as well as the Franklin D. Roosevelt Presidential Library and Museum.  For important information about the Home of Franklin D. Roosevelt National Historic Site hours of operation, fees, tours and directions, please click on the link to the National Park Services website at www.nps.gov/hofr.  (For more information on the Franklin D. Roosevelt Presidential Library and Museum, please look for the section later in this post)

Springwood - panorama A brief tour of Springwood – the birthplace and home of Franklin D. Roosevelt

Springwood Mansion was the birthplace and home of Franklin D. Roosevelt, in fact during a tour of the house visitors will see the second floor master bedroom where he was born in 1882.  Franklin lived at Springwood for most of his childhood, he lived there after his marriage to Eleanor, raised their children there and returned often during throughout his political career including the time he was President of the United States.

When touring the various rooms of Springwood one gets the impression that despite the fact that Franklin and Eleanor lived there it was very much the home of Sara Roosevelt, Franklin’s mother.  Mrs. Roosevelt made all the decisions about the running of the household from daily menus to the decorations and furniture choices for the various rooms of the house.

The Entrance Hall

Visitors will note that the Entrance Hall has an extensive display of Franklin’s collection of paintings.  Most of the collections on the walls are naval paintings; Franklin had been appointed Assistant Secretary of the Navy in 1913 and held the position until 1920.  Another part of the collection was historical political cartoons lampooning English Kings and this became a concern when King George visited Hyde Park in 1939.  Of course, when the King arrived for his visit, the King quickly commented that Franklin had a few that he was missing from his own personal collection back in London.  Special Note:  Behind the main staircase at the end of the Entrance Hall is an elevator which was added after Franklin became stricken with polio to aid him in moving between the floors of the home.

Springwood  - Entrance Hall naval paintings  Springwood  - Entrance Hall political cartoon collection

Living Room and Library

Franklin was a serious collection, besides his naval art and political cartoon collections, he had over 300 taxidermy bird specimens, over 200 ship models, over a million stamps which he started collecting at the age of eight (the stamps were later sold at auction in 1946 for about a quarter of a million dollars) and also thousands of coins and banknotes from around the world and political campaign buttons and medallions.  Franklin worked on his collections from the Library at Springwood, the room also holds approximately 14,000 books.  Special Note: After his death in 1945, several FDR commemorative stamps were issued from the U.S. Postage Department, shown below is the 1945 FDR stamp featuring the house at Hyde Park. (I wonder what Franklin would have thought about that!)

Springwood - Living Room Library 2  Springwood - Living Room Library 1

FDR-Hyde Park,  1945, 1Cent Postage Stamp

Music RoomDresen Room

The Music Room at Springwood is also known as the Dresden Room because of the collection of Chinese porcelain displayed in the room in particular the impressive chandelier, the pieces were acquired by Sara Roosevelt’s family when they lived in China.  The Dresden Room and the adjacent dining room (shown in the photos below) were often used when Franklin and Eleanor entertained guests.  Special Note:  Displayed on the top of the piano is a collection of autographed photographs of some of the famous guests that visited the Roosevelts at Hyde Park.

Dresden room 1  Dresden room -  photos on piano

Additional Rooms at Springwood  

Other rooms to see at Springwood are the bedroom where Franklin was born in 1882 and another bedroom where Franklin lived as a boy which was also used years later by his own sons.  During the house’s renovation in 1915, a new suite of rooms was built in the new addition for Franklin and Eleanor to allow them some much needed privacy living in the home that was essentially was Sara Roosevelt’s home.  Then in 1921, after Franklin was stricken with polio, adjustments were made to alter the arrangement of the rooms in this section of the house and one of the former dressing rooms was made into a separate bedroom for Eleanor.

Springwood - Bedroom where FDR was born  Springwood - FDR childhood bedroom

For more information on Springwood hours of operation, fees and available tours, please check out the FDR National Historic Site website at www.nps.gov/hofr

Top Cottage – the private retreat of Franklin Roosevelt

After Franklin was stricken with polio he felt the need to build a private retreat separate from Springwood and the interior would be specially designed to accommodate his handicap needs and to be fully accessible by wheelchair.  The exterior design reflects the Dutch Colonial Revival style of architectural that was common in the Hyde Park area, the house was one story with only two bedrooms.  The site where Top Cottage was built, at the time it was selected, had wonderful views of the Hudson River and the Catskill Mountains. 

Franklin originally intended Top Cottage as his primary residence after he left office, but things changed when he won an unprecedented third and then fourth term as president.  In the years following its construction, Franklin entertained many national and international political people at Top Cottage, most notably King George VI and Queen Elizabeth of England in 1939.

After Franklin’s death in 1945, his son Elliott Roosevelt lived there for a short time and then later sold the house to the Potter family who owned the property until 1996.  Eventually it received the honor of a National Historic Landmark and then in 2001 it was given to the National Park Service who opened the house to the public that same year.  For more information on Top Cottage hours of operation, fees and available tours, please check out the FDR National Historic Site website at www.nps.gov/hofr

Val-Kill – the Eleanor Roosevelt National Historic Site

Located a short distance from Springwood is Val-Kill which was used by Eleanor Roosevelt’s as her personal home.  Franklin suggested that his wife built a small cottage on the Hyde Park estate to be used by Eleanor as a personal retreat.  Construction on Val-Kill which was built adjacent the original Stone Cottage and completed in 1925; a year later another larger building was built nearby to hold the Val-Kill Industries which made furniture but it closed a decade later in 1936 during the Great Depression. 

Val-KillVal-Kill Industries advertisement  Val-Kill - Eleanor

Eleanor considered Val-Kill to be her first “real” home and when Franklin was not in residence at Springwood Eleanor would seek privacy at Val-Kill to live a simpler life, work on her writing projects and informally entertain her friends to frequently discuss politics.  After Franklin’s death in 1945, Val-Kill became her main residence and, in the years to follow, many national and international leaders came to pay their respect and to seek her counsel, such as Nikita Khruschchev and John Kennedy and later members of the United Nations.

Today, Val-Kill and Stone Cottage are administrated by the National Park Service, it is the only National Historic Site dedicated exclusively to a First Lady of the United States and since 1984 the buildings have been opened to the public. For more information on Val-Kill hours of operation, fees and available tours, please check out the FDR National Historic Site website at www.nps.gov/hofr 

The Franklin D. Roosevelt Presidential Library and Museum

The Roosevelt Presidential Library and Museum was the first library solely dedicated to a President of the United States and the only one to be actively used by a sitting president (some of Franklin’s “fire-side chats” broadcast on the radio were made from the library in Hyde Park).  As Franklin’s second term was coming to a close (and not realizing the possibility for his unprecedented third and four terms in office) he saw the need to plan a separate facility to store his historical papers, books and other memorabilia spanning his many years in political office.  This was a unique idea because prior to this time most presidential papers, etc. were generally held in private collections or donated to the Library of Congress.

Special Note: Following Roosevelt’s example, Congress passed the Presidential Libraries Act in 1955 which regulated the process and procedures to create and maintain future libraries to preserve the papers of the Presidents of the United States which would be built by private funding and then administrated by the National Archives.   Then in 1978, the Presidential Records Act limited the size and financing of the building of future museums but FDR’s original idea for preserving presidential papers in one location and accessible to the public has proven to be a very important historical idea for future generations.

In 1939, Sara Roosevelt donated 16 acres of land in Hyde Park, New York to build the library (at that time Franklin’s mother actually owned the Roosevelt estate and not Franklin).  The building dedication took place on November 19, 1939 and Franklin was there to lay the cornerstone at the ceremony.  The library was built according to Franklin’s design ideas in a Dutch Colonial Revival architectural style and constructed from Hudson Valley fieldstone and was opened to the public on June 30, 1941.  Franklin paid his last visit to Hyde Park in March 1945 and he died a short time later on April 12 at Warm Springs, Georgia.

HPP

The building now holds the political papers from the time when Franklin was a New York State Senator from 1910 to 1913, assistant Secretary of the Navy from 1913 to 1919, New York Governor from 1929 to 1932 and President of the United States from 1933 to 1945 (Franklin holds the record as the longest serving President because since that time legislation passed to limit a President to only two terms).  Also stored at the library are Franklin’s personal correspondences, family papers and books as well as his extensive collections of U.S. Naval memorabilia, political cartoons, stamps and coins.

After Eleanor Roosevelt died in 1962, her large collection of personal papers and correspondence dating from her time at the White House and afterwards through her work at the United Nations were given to the library and eventually in 1972 a separate wing was built and dedicated to her life and public service.  Then, in 2009 the FDR Library received $17.5 million from the federal government to bring the collections at the facility up to current archival standards in the assurance that the historical documents and artifacts would be preserved and stored properly for future generations; on June 30, 2013 the library was rededicated in a special ceremony 72 years after the original dedication.           

FDR Presidential Library - Oval office  FDR Presidential Library - Oval office desk

For more information on the FDR Presidential Library and Museum hours of operation, and fees, please check out their website at www.fdrlibrary.marist.edu/library

Decor – Downton Abbey-inspired entertaining

When watching the Downton Abbey television series, viewers will immediately notice the grand and elegant entertaining style of Lord and Lady Grantham.  There are simple breakfasts served most mornings from the sideboard or lavish multi-course dinners served very formally in the dining room or tea served in the drawing room, these scenes are all filmed for the television series on location at the real-life Highclere Castle (please see the photo below of the Highclere dining room)  In this post I will discuss the entertaining styles shown throughout the series beginning in the first season during the late 1910s in the post-Edwardian era dictated by strict rules and traditions to the final season during the mid-1920s when social changes were happening at a rapid pace after World War I as England was moving into more modern times.

Highclere dining room

Back in England during the post-Edwardian period of the mid-1910s, a woman such as Lady Grantham would spend quite a bit of time planning a dinner party.  Special care was taken in choosing the food and drink for the menu, selecting china, silver and crystal for the table service, flowers for the centerpiece and the seating arrangements for the guests.  Entertainment was an important part of the aristocratic social life and it was also a way for gentlemen to conduct business away from the office.  (The photo below shows the beautiful Downton dining table set for a formal dinner in season 3 episode 2)

Downton Abbey Dinner 2

For special dinners it was customary for invitations to be addressed and sent to the guests four to six weeks in advance.  In general, the dinner time would start at eight o’clock in the evening and guests were expected to arrive at least fifteen minutes prior to the time indicted on the invitation for pre-dinner drinks.  In contrast to the lengthy formal dinners lasting several hours during the Victorian and Edwardian times, by the 1910s there would a considerably shorter eight course meal lasting under an hour. Upon arrival, the guests would remove their coats and then proceed into the drawing room for pre-dinner drinks. (as shown in the photos below)  Once all the guests had arrived they would go into the dining room and seat in very specific places depending on their rank and status.  In general, the head of the house sits at the head of the table but in Downton Abbey Lord and Lady Grantham sit on opposite sides in the middle of the table.  In either case, the guest of honor or most important man or women sits next to the host and hostess.  (the photo below shows a typical Downton Abbey dinner with the guests seated at the table)

Downton Abbey  Downton Abbey - pre dinner 1

Downton Abbey Dinner 1

Each place setting would be carefully laid out defined by strict etiquette rules with the correct plates, utensils and stemware for the meal being served.  (as shown in the photo below)  On a more formal occasion, each guest would have a place card with their name and sometimes several menu cards with the each course written in French would also be placed on the table.  Lighting for an evening meal would be keep low with candlelight and there would be floral centerpieces or perhaps fruit in silver or crystal bowls that could be eaten later during the dessert course.  The meal would be served by butlers working their way around the table starting with the host or hostess, serving on the left side of the person and taking away used plates from the right side always in a manner that is quiet and without disturbing the guests or interrupting conversations.  During each course the butlers will stand a short distance behind the table and keeping watch in case a guest should need attention.  (the photo below shows Carson waiting to serve the guests in between courses)         

Downton Abbey - dinner place setting  Downton Abbey dinner - butler service 1

At the conclusion of the dinner, the ladies would “go through” to the drawing room for coffee while the men would remain in the dining room for port, sherry or claret and cigars or cigarettes.  Later the gentlemen would join the ladies and occasionally there would be entertainment in the evening and it could be laying cards, charades or other games.  In the case of Downton Abbey it would be an invited Opera singer or perhaps a visiting Jazz band or music from the gramaphone. (the photos below show the various forms of after-dinner entertainment as depicted in Downton Abbey)

Downton Abbey - after dinner entertainment - charades

Downton Abbey - after dinner entertainment - opera singer  Downton Abbey - Jazz band

Downton Abbey - after dinner entertainment - gramaphone

Here is a list of items needed to set a proper Downton Abbey-inspired table:

  • Table pad or other cloth, goes underneath the formal tablecloth to keep it in place
  • White tablecloth, length should hang with the end between the floor and the table edge
  • White napkins, approximately twenty-four to twenty-six inches square.  For a very formal table the napkins should be folded into the Bishop’s Miter style
  • Place the plates, utensils and stemware in a formal place setting, if you are a real stickler for details you can use a tape measure for precise placement (look for an example in the photo below)

formal dinner place setting

  • Candlelight would set an enchanting mood; use long white candles that are slightly longer than the candlesticks
  • Floral arrangements add beauty to a formal table but be aware that placement does not block the view of the guests.  Fruit in silver or crystal bowls and fern or other greenery placed on the table are another alternative.

 

Downton Abbey Fashions – Part Two

As previously mentioned in Part One of the Fashions of Downton Abbey two part series, the clothing worn by the characters of the television series tell the story and set the mood as much as Highcere Castle and the stage sets at Ealing Studios.  In Part One, I discussed the fashions of the six seasons of Downton Abbey including day and evening dresses as well as the accessories of the aristocratic Crawley family.  In Part Two, I will discuss the wedding dresses worn by the Crawley sisters at both their first and second weddings as highlighted in seasons three and six.  I will also discuss the wedding outfits of several of the servants of Downtown Abbey.

As season one and two unfolds Lady Sybil, the youngest Crawley daughter, and Tom Branson share a growing attraction to one another and the couple plans to secretly run away to Gretna Green to elope but they are found by Lady Mary and Lady Edith before the marriage takes place (season two episode 7).  Lord Grantham threatens to disinherit Lady Sybil, but eventually he gives his blessing and the couple is married and move to Ireland as season two comes to an end.  Unfortunately for viewers, the wedding takes place off camera and denied seeing Lady Sybil in her wedding dress.  (Shown below are Lady Sybil and Tom Branson)

Sybil and Tom Branston 1

In season two episode 5, William had returned from World War I severely injured and he is brought back to Downton.  William asks Daisy to marry him before he dies, this will provide her with hid pension.  Daisy is torn, because she is not truly in love with William but Mr. Mason, William’s father, and Mrs. Patmore, the cook, convince her to do this for William.  The wedding takes place in one of the upstairs bedrooms by the local vicar and the bed is decorated with floral swags and Daisy is wearing her best dress for the ceremony with her hair arranged in a pretty style.  Sadly, William dies a few hours later.  (Shown below is a two photos of the wedding ceremony, the one on the left shows a close-up photo of Daisy’s hairstyle)

Daisy wedding 1  Daisy and William wedding

There is another wedding that involves two of the Downton servants, Mr. Bates and Anna, which takes place during season two in episode 7 Mr. Bates is the personal valet to the Earl of Grantham and Anna is Lady Mary’s maid, the couple falls in love and after several troublesome obstacles they finally get married and the viewers are allowed a quick glimpse of the wedding ceremony but there is no wedding reception.  As Anna herself says, “I’d rather have the right man than the right wedding”.  As was customary for her station in society, for the ceremony at the registry office Anna wears her best outfit which is a starched white blouse, blue skirt, black hat and she carries a bouquet of wildflowers.  (Shown below are two photos of Mr. Bates and Anna on their wedding day)

Mr. Bates and Anna wedding 1a  Mr. Bates and Anna wedding 2

Then, during season three of the Downton Abbey television show there was the weddings of the two remaining Crawley sisters.  The first was the much anticipated wedding of Lady Mary to Matthew Crawley as shown in episode one to start the season.  The wedding ceremony took place at St. Michael and All Angels Church, the local church in the Downton.  Lady Mary’s wedding gown was in fitting with the time period, the third season is set between the years 1920 to 1921, and was custom made under the direction of the Downton Abbey television show’s costume designer, Caroline McCall.  Lady Mary’s gown is an ivory column dress with a dropped waistline, long sheer sleeves and a chapel-length train embellished with lace details, pearl beading and Swarovski crystals.  The Grantham family tiara, a beautiful 45-carat diamond tiara was used to secure a veil and, to complete her bridal ensemble, Lady Mary carried a simple bouquet of white Calla lilies.  (Shown below are several photos of Lady Mary in her wedding dress and with her handsome groom, Matthew)

Mary 1st wedding gown - front view  Mary 1st wedding gown - back view

Mary and Matthew wedding

Grantham tiara

Below are several more photos of the wedding.  The photo on the left shows Cora, the Countess of Grantham and the mother of the bride, flanked by her daughters, Lady Edith and Lady Sybil, all dressed in lovely pastel dresses with hats embellished with artificial flowers and satin ribbons.  The photo on the right shows both of Lady Mary’s grandmothers, the conservative Violet the Dowager Countess and the more flamboyant American-born Martha Levinson wearing her fur and feathers.

Wedding clothing 1  Wedding clothing 2

For episode three of season three, Lady Edith is finally the center of attention as she prepares for her wedding to Anthony Strallan.  Caroline McCall, the Downton Abbey television show’s costume designer, was inspired by a vintage silk train which was embellished with flowers and crystals which would be attached to the shoulders of the dress with embroidered flowers styled to match those on the train.  Based on a similar Lanvin design, the ivory silk dress is softly gathered at the hip with more embroidered flower accents and it is both simple and elegant.  Lady Edith, like her sister, also wore her veil attached with Grantham tiara which was a wonderful tradition commonly done with important pieces of jewelry by members of other aristocratic families.  Sadly, as beautiful she looked on her wedding day, Lady Edith was jilted at the altar by Strallan who did not want to burden her with a life married to an older invalid.  (Shown below are several photos of Lady Edith wearing her lovely wedding gown)

Edith 1st wedding - front view  Edith 1st wedding - front view 2
 

Edith 1st wedding - back view 1  Edith 1st wedding - train detail 2

Below is a photo of Lady Edith with her sisters, Lady Mary and Lady Sybil, before the ill-fated wedding.  Lady Mary is wearing a lovely pastel blue dress and Lady Sybil in a lavender dress, both are wearing hats.  

season 3 Edith's wedding

The next Downton wedding to take place was in season five episode 8 and it was the happy occasion of Lady Rose to Atticus Aldridge.  In this episode preparations are underway for the wedding and Lady Rose will be wearing two special bridal outfits, one for the registry office ceremony and another for the grand reception later that night.  The dress for the wedding ceremony was a pastel blue dress with embroidered embellishments inspired by a vintage collar that Caroline McCall, the Downton Abbey costume designer, had found in Paris.  The hat was decorated with preserved real roses done by the wardrobe department’s milliner.  The second dress for the reception was also a vintage find at a shop in London and it was a beautiful ivory silk tulle dress with gold beading and worn with matching silk opera-length gloves.  Two of the preserved roses were pinned behind Lady Rose’s ears and more of the roses were used to create a wedding bouquet with little vintage wax flowers, pearls and gilded ferns.  (Shown below are several photos of Lady Rose wearing her two wedding outfits)

Rose wedding outfits - season 5

  Rose wedding gown 1

SPOILER ALERT:  Please be aware that the following reveals season six plot details!

During season six there is a trio of special weddings during the final season of Downton Abbey.  The first takes place in episode 3 and it is the wedding of Mrs. Hughes and Mr. Carson, he is the head butler and she is the housekeeper at Downton Abbey.  While selecting her bridal outfit both Mrs. Patmore, the cook and Lady Mary are unhappy with Mrs. Hughes choice of what they think of as a drab mauve dress for the special occasion.  Lady Mary suggests Lady Grantham’s velvet coat with stunning lace and beaded embellishments and while they are trying it on Lady Grantham walks in on the women and she is very upset that they are in her bedroom trying on her personal clothes but in the end she calms down and kindly gives Mrs. Hughes the beautiful coat to wear on her wedding day.  (Shown below are several photos of Mrs. Hughes wearing her wedding outfit and another photo of the guests gathered for the ceremony)

Mr Carson and Mrs Hughes wedding 1  Mrs Hughes wedding outfit - coat detail

Mr Carson and Mrs Hughes wedding 2

Then, in episode 8 of season six, the fate of Lady Mary is quickly settled when she weds Henry Talbot.  Remember Lady Mary’s first husband Matthew died in a tragic car accident shortly after the birth of their son, and her choice of a bridal dress for her second wedding was almost, dare I say it, matronly!  The ivory dress features a deep V-front with embroidered detailing and long sleeves.  Lady Mary wears a simple pearl necklace and for the church ceremony she wears a hat embellished with artificial flowers and netting.  Instead of a bridal bouquet, Lady Mary wears a floral corsage pinned on the left side of her dress.  (The photos below show Lady Mary wearing her wedding outfit and another photo shows her with her new husband, Henry)

Mary 2nd wedding dress 2  Mary 2nd wedding 5

Finally, in the series finale (the 2015 Christmas special) of Downton Abbey, Lady Edith finds the love and happiness she deserves when she weds Bertie Pelham, the new Marchioness of Hexham.  Lady Edith looked absolutely beautiful in her lace short sleeved wedding dress and, since she was denied a conclusion to her first attempt at marriage, she wore a lace veil with a beaded headband instead of the Grantham tiara.  (Shown below are several photos of Lady Edith in her wedding dress and with her new husband, Bertie)

Edith 2nd wedding with her father 1  Edith 2nd wedding 1

(For more on the Downton Abbey television series, please click on the link.  Also, to see more costumes worn by the women of Downton Abbey throughout the years, please click on the link to Downton Abbey Fashions – Part One)