This post is about two Kennedy weddings … the first wedding is Caroline Kennedy to Edwin Schlossberg and ten years later the second wedding is John F. Kennedy, Jr. to Carolyn Bessette. But, before we start, let’s briefly discuss the immediate family of John F. Kennedy and Jacqueline “Jackie” Bouvier Kennedy (later Onassis).
Many readers will remember the children of President John F. Kennedy and his wife Jacqueline from when they lived in the White House. At the time of their father’s inauguration in January 1961 the children were very young and tragically, less than three years later President Kennedy was assassinated in November 1963. (I have a very vivid image of young “John-John” saluting his father’s casket). Sadly, John-John would celebrate his third birthday on the day of his father’s funeral and Caroline would turn six years old a few days later.
After leaving the White House and Washington D.C., Jackie moved her two children to New York City to raise them away from the glare of the public and the press. Then five years later, with the assassination of Robert Kennedy in 1968 and Jackie’s subsequent marriage to Aristotle Onassis later that same year, the family would lead an even more closed life. As the years passed, Caroline and John grew into well-behaved and responsible adults, graduating school and moving onto careers.
Sadly, Jackie lived to see only one of her children married. Caroline wed Edwin Schlossberg in 1986. The couple had three children; Rose born in 1988, Tatiana in 1990 and John in 1993. In late 1993, Jackie was diagnosed with non-Hodgkin lymphoma and went through chemotherapy but the cancer spread to other parts of her body and she died on May 18, 1994. Two years later, John Jr. married Carolyn Bessette in 1996. Unfortunately, tragedy stuck the family again on July 16, 1999 when John Jr., Carolyn and her sister Laurel died in a plane crash. Today, the last surviving member of the immediate family of President Kennedy is Caroline Kennedy who was most recently appointed as the ambassador to Japan in July 2013 by President Obama.
Wedding of Caroline Kennedy and Edwin Schlossberg
Date: July 19, 1986 Place: Church of Our Lady of Victory in Centerville, Massachusetts
Caroline Kennedy and Edwin Schlossberg met in 1981 when both were working at the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York City, New York. Caroline had a job in the Film and Television Department and Ed was working as an exhibit designer. The couple dated for several years and became engaged in March 1986 with a wedding set a few months later with most of the planning to be done by Jackie Kennedy Onassis, the mother of the bride.
The couple was married at Our Lady of Victory Catholic Church in Centerville, Massachusetts. on July 19, 1986. (which was also the groom’s 41st birthday) Many of the details of the wedding were keep secret in order to protect the privacy of the bridal couple. It is known that there were 400 guests invited to the ceremony and the reception which followed at the Kennedy compound in Hyannis Port located six miles away from the church. In addition to the numerous Kennedy family members and Schlossberg family there were several former aides of the Kennedy presidential administration; such as Arthur Schlesinger, Theodore Sorensen, Dave Powers and John Kenneth Galbraith.
Security was tight on the day of the wedding and that morning a crowd of 2,000 people had gathered in the small town on the streets outside the church. Caroline, who was 28 years old, arrived with Senator Edward Kennedy, her beloved uncle that would escort her down the aisle. John Kennedy Jr., the brother of the bride, was the best man and Maria Shriver Schwarzenegger, her cousin, was the matron of honor. (The photos below show the bridal party arriving at the church, one photo taken just before the ceremony was to start shows Caroline gestured for the crowd to be quiet!)
Caroline collaborated with Carolina Herrera to design her wedding dress. The white silk organza dress featured a round neck, short sleeves, a full skirt flowing into a twenty-five foot train and a long bodice covered with embroidered white shamrocks, which were the bride’s sentimental tribute to her father’s Irish ancestry. On her head the bride wore a large bow with a long tulle veil attached, she wore carried a small bouquet of white phaleonopsis orchids and she “borrowed” diamond and pearl earring which had original been a gift from her father to her mother. The groom wore a Willi Smith navy blue linen suit, a silver tie and a boutonniere of stephanotis. The matron of honor and seven bridesmaids wore white and lavender floral print dress with wreaths cornflower bouquets and more cornflowers in their hair and the two flower girls wore white organdy pinafore dresses with pale blue sashes, cornflowers were President Kennedy’s favorite flowers. The best man and ten ushers wore blue linen blazers, white linen trousers, gray linen ties and cornflower boutonnieres. The mother of the bride looked lovely wearing a pale green crepe dress with long sleeves and a narrow skirt designed by Herrera and long white gloves.
For the wedding ceremony, the inside of the church was decorated simply with several potted bay trees behind the altar and around the church, as well as floral arrangements of delphinium, white lilies, cornflowers and Queen Anne’s lace. Across the altar was a garland of oak leaves and small bunches of wild roses and honeysuckle were tied on the pews. After the service, Caroline and Ed exited the church, briefly posed for photographs and then left for the reception in a silver limousine. John Jr. blew his sister a kiss from the steps of the church and standing nearby Jackie held back tears as she clung onto the arm of Ted Kennedy.
The wedding reception was held at the oceanfront home of the bride’s 95 year old grandmother in Hyannis Port. Under a large white tent decorated with blue pennants the wedding dinner menu included cold pea soup with mint, vegetable vinaigrette, roast chicken with rice, beef sirloin. The wedding cake was a four-tiered yellow cake with a chocolate filling and white icing which was served with a vanilla, chocolate and strawberry ice cream. At the reception there were several toasts but perhaps the most poignant moment was when John Jr. raised is glass and said, “It’s been the three of us for so long … and now there is a fourth” and then he warmly welcomed Ed to the family. To end the evening there was a wonderful fireworks display. Later Caroline and Ed left for their honeymoon in Hawaii and Japan.
(Shown below is a more recent photo of Caroline Kennedy and Ed Schlossberg)
Wedding of John F. Kennedy Jr. and Carolyn Bessette
Date: September 21, 1996 Place: Brack Chapel on Cumberland Island, Georgia
John F. Kennedy and Carolyn Bessette first met in 1992. After they began dating in 1994, the good looking couple was photographed constantly and every detail of their relationship was reported in the press while the couple tried to live their lives quietly in the Tribeca loft that they had moved into in the summer of 1995. By this time, John had left his job as a prosecutor in the Manhattan district attorney’s office to begin a career as the co-owner and editor of “George” magazine. John’s goal for the magazine, which would focus on politics, was to present topics in an entertaining way which would create public interest and subsequent involvement in the political process. At the time that Carolyn met John, she had been working for Calvin Klein but she later left her position with the company shortly after their engagement.
John managed to keep his wedding to Carolyn a complete secret from the intrusive press by marrying on the exclusive Cumberland Island off the coast of Georgia on September 21, 1996. The ceremony took place in the evening at the tiny wooden structure known as the Brack Chapel of the First African Baptist Church attended by only 40 guests who included the immediate families of the bridal couple and a few close friends, a reception immediately followed the wedding ceremony at the Greyfield Inn also located on Cumberland Island.
The wedding officiant was Reverend Charles O’Byrne who had traveled from the St. Ignatius Loyola Catholic Church in Manhattan to perform the ceremony. Since the service took place in the evening and because the small church had no electricity, the inside was light by candles and kerosene lamps. A small wooden stand served as the altar and it was decorated with greenery, the only other decoration was a cross made from two pieces of wood tied together with rope. The ceremony was very short with several members of the bridal couple’s families giving scripture readings, also “Amazing Grace” and “Will the Circle Be Unbroken” hymns were performed by gospel singer David Davis.
Shown on the right is the famous photo taken by Denis Reggie of the newlyweds leaving the church, John is gallantly kissing Carolyn’s hand as she beams with joy!
The beautiful bride worked with the relatively new designer, Narcisco Rodriquez, in creating a “pearl white” silk crepe biased-cut floor-length gown which she wore with a tulle silk veil and long silk gloves, she wore beaded sating Manolo Blahnik sandals. Carolyn wore her hair in a simple bun at the nape of her neck and attached a tulle silk veil with a “borrowed” clip that once belonged to the groom’s deceased mother, Jackie Kennedy Onassis. Carolyn carried a lily of the valley bouquet.
The handsome groom wore a Gordon Henderson dark blue wool single-breasted suit with a white pique vest and a pale blue tie. Much like his sister did 10 years earlier; the groom honored his father, President John F. Kennedy, by wearing his wristwatch. Anthony Radziwill, the groom’s cousin, was the best man and Caroline Kennedy, the groom’s sister, was the matron of honor and she wore a navy blue crepe silk gown designed by Narcisco Rodriquez. Jack Schlossberg, the groom’s nephew, was the ring bearer and Rose and Tatiana Schlossberg, the groom’s nieces, were flower girls and they wore tea-length white linen dresses.
After the wedding ceremony, the bridal couple and their guests went to Greyfield Inn for a reception. The dinner menu featured shrimp, artichokes and grill swordfish. The wedding cake was a three tiered whit cake with vanilla butter cream frosting decorated with flowers. They couple later honeymooned in Turkey and had a ten day cruise on the Aegean Sea aboard the “Althea”.
In the years following the wedding, John and Carolyn were constantly scrutinized in the press and frequently photographed as a glamourous couple attending functions in both New York City and sometimes Washington D.C. The fashionable Carolyn has a distinct classic minimalist style and she was often compared to her mother-in-law, Jackie Kennedy Onassis, who she had unfortunately never met before the former First Lady’s death in 1994. The photo below shows the couple in May 1999.
Sadly on July 16, 1999 John, Carolyn and her sister Lauren died in a plane crash over the Atlantic Ocean while on route to Martha’s Vineyard. John had been the pilot of the small plane and it was later determined that the probable cause of the tragic accident was “pilot’s failure to maintain control of the airplane during a descent over water at night most likely the result of spatial disorientation”. The bodies were eventually recovered a few days later and on July 22 a memorial service took place aboard a Naval ship, USS Briscoe, and their ashes were scattered into the waters off the coast of Martha’s Vineyard.
In the end, Caroline Kennedy Schlossberg is the only living member of President John Kennedy immediate family, the last link to the fabled modern day Camelot.
If you are interested in more detailed information on the wedding of John Kennedy and Jaqueline Bouvier, please click on the link. Two other posts of interest are: Jackie Kennedy – her White House Dresses and the John F. Kennedy Presidential Library and Museum.
I got engaged a month before the 1996 John and Carolyn wedding. Her dress, in my mind, was revolutionary. A lot of wedding dresses at the time were very busy with lots of ruffles and bows. I knew I wanted a wedding dress that was going to be different ,but, I could not visualize what that would look like. When I saw the photos from their wedding and saw Carolyn’s beautiful dress I knew the sexy simplicity that I wanted for my dress. Our dresses were not alike ,but, I ended up marrying the next year in a beautiful dress with a simple silloutte.
I agree with your choice – sometimes simplicity is best!
A lovely reminiscence …